I've been having this problem everytime I go out to clubs

InferiousX · 2011-08-28T20:47:19+00:00

1:) Find someone in the club you are attracted too

2:) When aggressive girl/girls do their thing, tell them that they are probably pissing off your girlfriend (point to your intended target)

3:) Once they back off, approach your intended target and you have an automatic relevant opener. "Man that girl would not leave me alone, so I told her you were my g/f!"

Proceed with conversation/escalation. A good starting point in that it's an easy opener and you've already framed the interaction in a way that she's "your girl".

Yes, I know kung fu.

oxslashxo · 2011-08-28T19:13:25+00:00

This confuses me.

censusguy · 2011-08-28T19:19:35+00:00

TIL that 'problem' does not mean what I thought it meant.

2011-08-28T19:38:09+00:00

firstworldproblems

sedditlurker · 2011-08-28T19:33:09+00:00

yo bro I have a similar problem but shit is getting real bad!

I walk outside my front door in the morning and there's like a plethora of women of all races, HB10s, right outside my door bending with their ass facing me and their pants down. You'd think deciding which colour to fuck first was easy but it ain't so!

Sometimes hot chicks try to break inside my house whilst I'm asleep to rape me. I end up calling the police brah; bitches love batons

strangerwithcandy · 2011-08-28T19:19:06+00:00

Well it seems like you are having a problem most of us would love to have.

On the other hand I do understand that you would like to do things at your own pace.

First of all stop worrying if you are mean or not if somebody is making you uncomfortable you should be able to comment on that.

This is how I would do it: The moment a girl is being to aggressive, you gently grab her by the shoulders and say we are going to fast lets slow down a bit. This should not be awkward just continue where you left of before the aggressive behavior. Try out variations a couple of time to see what works best for you and after a few tries you will feel comfortable in this role. Most girls will actually react positively to this.

When you do it in such a manner you convey to the girls that you are in control of the situation/frame, confident enough to say no and finally you play hard to get.

I believe in the long-run this will create a more meaningful experience with woman for you, since you won't get pressured into doing things that you don't like.

frogma · 2011-08-28T20:17:52+00:00

Happens all the time. Tell her you have to get back to your friends and just try to avoid her after that. If you're not with friends, or if you're literally stuck for whatever reason, just cut in with "Hey nice meeting you," shake her hand, and get away from her.

But if you really know what you're doing (and it sounds like you do), why the fuck are you dancing with girls like that in the first place? I don't just go and dance with ugly girls- I pick the ones I'm attracted to. So if she wants to make out, that's not a problem. If you're trying to say you just don't know these girls well enough to kiss them- even if you're attracted to them- I call bullshit.

heckz · 2011-08-29T02:48:48+00:00

Drunk easy girls are bad news.

testmypatience · 2011-08-28T21:46:07+00:00

This is crazy man. Possibly you are great looking or they are just more slutty than the usual girls. More details may help.

Title	I've been having this problem everytime I go out to clubs
Author	BroGangsterProPUA
Upvotes	0
Comments	11
Date	August 28, 2011 6:12 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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