I am noticing a pattern where if I #close, I am generally able to progress with texting into a date, etc.. but with K-closing, it's much harder to move things forward. Girls seem distant during text game afterward, and it's much more of an effort to see them again.

I am wondering if, by K-closing, I am killing some of the tension and showing all my cards? The K-closes I've made have all been true "close" scenarios, in that it's at the very end of the interaction. They're all giddy about it when it happens, but come the next day, it's a struggle. Should I just be waiting longer to text, to keep some tension alive?

Any thoughts?