I’m a 3rd year in college who just broke up with my gf a month ago. Been working hard to get back in the game with no avail. Being in a fraternity, I constantly meet girls and then dm/ text them afterwords but I keep getting ghosted after a little while. Odd thing is, I am a pretty attractive man (physically) so I don’t understand why this keeps happening.

My main conclusions is that:

  1. I have a fuckboy rep and girls just see me as a fuckboy whenever I try to dm them
  2. Maybe I didn’t build enough attraction before messaging them
  3. I’m boring in person or through text?
  4. My standards are super high and the girls I’m getting at is too high quality?

Question is, how could I keep in contact with a girl without her ghosting me?

Ps: I know I’m good looking and been told, the girls I try to get at currently are at the top 1-5% of girls ( which is why I need to put in work) . I get hit on at bars and shit by subpar girls. I don’t wanna settle for anything lower tho.