Keeping things casual

ndia1 · 2019-09-23T19:48:55+00:00

Looks like shes trying to give you an ultimatum so she can have her cake and eat it too.

Three options: give her what she wants, or call her bluff and let her make the decision, or you break it off by agreeing with her and moving on. The last is probably not what she would want.

I think your tongue-in-cheek reply is bang on as a funny way to call her bluff.

To do it successfully tho, you have to actually be willing to walk away. Think about that.

Just my two cents.

hunterpua · 2019-09-23T19:51:56+00:00

She doesn't want to see you casually.

TimeNail · 2019-09-23T23:27:34+00:00

Hi guys she replied with a laughing emoji and said "If someone hasn't swept me off my feet by then I'll give you tiny feet babies"

Is that a good response from her do you think?

GrumpyRPGReviews · 2019-09-23T19:48:49+00:00

Respect her wishes and move on

corentinus_ll · 2019-09-23T19:52:15+00:00

Sounds like she’s serious. So I would respect that.

Go for that reply. It’s not pushy and pretty chill. She’ll laugh about it and maybe contact you later on

TimeNail · 2019-09-23T20:07:02+00:00

Thanks to everyone for your replies. 4 years ago she sent me a similar message and I thought I would never see her again but did see her recently.

I tried to keep things casual by not seeing her too much or messaging her too much but I guess it didn't work lol.

I think I will send her "OK I understand if in the future I find myself ready to get married we can fly to Vegas and do it then create adorable babies that have my gorgeous eyes and your amazing tiny feet ;)"

Maybe I will think about what she has said and contact her if I decide I want to date her exclusively. I am very tempted I must admit. I do have doubts if we would work long term but I might decide I want to try. Do you think it would be weird to think about it for a few weeks then message her if I decide I'd like to try it

Thanks again to all

AFL-NOEL · 2019-09-23T19:55:29+00:00

I would say for me life is only in the moment and I appreciate the awesome moments we have shared together.. If/when you decide you want to vibe with me again, I’m down, sending positive vibes to you always either way..

And for you brother I already know you are, but definitely keep approaching other girls and giving yourself more options, and if/when this girl comes back around it will be a nice bonus.. here’s a new daygame video from Miami Beach, Florida for added inspiration.. sending you positive vibes bro! https://youtu.be/txldYYFuyaU

Title	Keeping things casual
Author	TimeNail
Upvotes	1
Comments	7
Date	September 23, 2019 7:30 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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