Usually i grab their hands and talk about how smooth or dry their hands are, or i check the jewelry and comment on it.

Now my problem is the next time, could be the same date or a second time we meet up, sometimes its all good from the hug and thinks just go smooth,

But what do you guys do when the mood just isn't there from the start on a second third or whatever time you see her, to be really physical, I figured i just need to escalate again like at the first date but i cant keep repeating the same gimmicks on the same girls , i recently had a girl say to me, yeah yeah we know about the dry hands LOL.

Suggestions?