Just a random thought that could be food for thought.

I think guys don’t realize how sexual women are and that there are millions of women out there just looking to get laid and just begging for the chance tinker themself go with a man.

Guys think they are not good enough and are working on a very different set of skills of which they think it will bring them women than is actually necessary. (I don’t believe one should work on something just to get girls but that is besides the point here)

Women have very low standards in terms of what guys think they should be. Handsome, rich, tall, successful, muscular etc etc.

All a lot of women want is for a guy to be “not an idiot”. Sometimes I look around at some amazingly hot women and see there boyfriend and can’t help myself thinking “what a nerd”. Besides that thought being judgmental and petty it is true.

Guys should focus on fixing their issues instead of adding all kinds of skills and dancing monkey tactics.

Fix your neediness, take responsibility, do what you like in life, don’t be ashamed for your feelings, wants and needs. Have clear values and boundaries. Be trustworthy and have morals.

If you think a woman wont immediately sense the difference between a guy that will probably show her nudes to his friends and a guy that will treat her fairly but strict even if she’s emotional and doing dumb shit, you are mistaken.

If you fix some of your own issues you’ll have room to care about someone else and listen to them and bond with people.