Okay, so for a couple of years I've wondered why I couldn't get a girl like everyone else. I'm funny, charming, and good looking, hell I even got the six pack and fancy myself something of a gentleman. I stopped hanging out with geeks(Mostly because they betray me ALL the time. . . .), stopped playing so many video games, started learning to dance, learned to speak different dialects so people aren't off put by the "black guy who speaks like a white person." Stepped my dress game up.

Yet, I found myself dating only women who were narcissistic and had issues that they would always project onto me. (No, seriously one of them left me with scar tissue on the bridge of my nose, to think that day started so hilariously and ended with a broken bottle of vodka to the face, and a suplex from a girl who does MMA. . . . .I mean depending on your point of view that day ended hilariously too. . . .)

So, at a university I'm at I try my hand with girls, each time my approach gets better. Smile more, talk about the right shit, make jokes. Yet, no connection and no date, just a number. I was baffled and frustrated but then I found this post about kinosthetics it read and I quote: "Without kino , you're not getting laid." I got the basics of Kino. A light touch, tap on the shoulder, something friendly and non invasive.

So, I tried it. . . And, it could have been because I showed her my abs, or it could have been because I took her out to eat after the gym. Either way, I kissed her on the second day of meeting her and we went further.

I wasn't nervous, just hella happy. This is a first for me, like the first time I've ever seduced a woman.

I'm having fun with her, she's just nice and normal and doesn't play mind games or act emotionally manipulative. We don't have all that much in common, but I like her and enjoy her company.

It made me wonder: How the HELL did I get by without this before?