Guys, this past month I've been going clubbing wed, thurs, fri, sat and crazy stuff always happen every night, I can't stress how much going out at night is important to develop game. I always get warmed up by opening and talking and getting blown out but I always manage to close by the time the night is over, however the more I go out the more the opportunity to fclose appears, it must be a law of attraction thing because in the last two weeks I blew 6-7 opportunities to fclose by 1) not picking up on subtle ques and being too logical, e.g. Girl asks you for directions at 3am on the street, plays stupid even though your directions are clear, isn't leaving, and finally asks where YOU are heading a few times. 2) focusing on something arbitrary like getting her number when she just wants someone for the night 3) falling for shit tests where she guilt trips you e.g. "Doing this would make me feel bad cause my boyfriend would be hurt" 4) thinking this is too good to be true, too easy that its not possible (this happens subconciously, you're not used to this happening so easily, you assume it can't be true so you focus on something arbitrary), or having limiting beliefs or reference points on reality 5) not venue changing 6) not inviting them over after you've venue changed! 7) Don't always rely on her buying temperature, she may show no signs of sexuality but will still want you to take her from the club.

Mini fr: Its 1 am, I'm at the patio section of a nice club relaxing with my friend Steven, this gorgeous blonde blue eyes latvian girl waits to get to the bar counter and I tell her "get in we're just chatting" she holds eye contact with me and smiles. We chat for abit about the city, where she's from etc.. She gets her drinks and leaves the other way. Most guys don't reapproach but I think reapproaching is crucial as you never know what will happen, let her tell you to leave. Anyways an hour later, I see her on the dance floor with 2 big black guys orbiting around her watching her dance, what afcs the biggest men can be lol. I walk right to her, get real close, put my arm around her waist and back and continue the conversation, she equally kinos me, rubs my back. After ten minutes she asks me how long I'm staying for, I say that I'm leaving, she says "hold on let me say bye to my friends", she repeats this a few times as I think she's leaving me. This is where I mess up, thinking she's leaving me, I try to arrange a date and end up number closing her. It just wasn't in my reality that it could be THIS easy to pull a girl home, I never had any references like this until that night. Even though we arranged a date, I could tell she just wanted me for the night. My problem: wasn't in my reality this could happen, subconsciously, so I focused on getting her number, didn't pay full attention to what she was saying and incinuating, and thinking in my head. Compared to previous reference points, she showed no signs of arousal or excitement but still wanted sex, it could be her personality, every girl is different, because of this I was thrown off my calibration, sometimes you have to pay attention to words instead of buying temperature.

Well I hope you learned from my mistakes again. Posted from blackberry, lots of spelling mistakes :)

Cheers!