Learning from fish how to fish

Twobithatter · 2020-08-16T21:03:22+00:00

I think experience is what dictates a lot of this. You can tell when it’s someone who wishes a guy would do that for them, or they think that’s what a guy should do, or it’s actually something a guy did. I don’t think I’ve ever a girl give me real world experience that actually worked.

Dodechaedron · 2020-08-16T21:27:57+00:00

They live in a fantasy land where men have to be strong, confident, fragile, bold, shy, gentle, rough, caring, ruthless, delicate, muscular, sweaty but perfumed, young , experienced, tall, sincere but macchiavellic, all at the same time. We live in a fantasy land where women will jump on us to have sex, so both genders project their own fantasies onto each other.

Least1ngenuity · 2020-08-18T09:10:25+00:00

imho both men and women give out the same shit advice. Male advice comes down to work out and play the numbers game. Female advice comes down to be yourself and make her feel special. These cookie cutter advices usually will fail to address whatever specific issues a man has with women.Ill give my experience, im relatively good looking, well spoken, confident. yet struggle with women badly. The numbers game approach destroyed my self esteem for years and took a lot to get it back. And the be yourself, mae her feel special and treat her like a normal person approach makes women assume i must be gay.
Realistically as i said it all depends on who you are. I have so many female friends who have told me of guys who got to them being dumb direct, but they were already predisposed to want to be with those guys. And the same women will tell of someone who slowly got into their hearts (or lower)

relentless_pma · 2020-08-18T20:05:40+00:00

How do we separate genuine advice from women from the not so helpful ones?

Lol this can also be asked about guys who give advice. Some advice in this subreddit sucks.

TheXXL · 2020-08-17T08:02:27+00:00

How do we separate genuine advice from women from the not so helpful ones?

You can't.

What advice has a woman or women told you that works?

None. My mother and my Sisters always said to me "Treat her like a princess"... You know the rest of the story.

If you really want to learn about women, interact with them, read statistics about dating behavior, read books about evolutionary biology, read about psychology and so on. Then take that information and apply it. If it does not work, use your experience to not do the thing that does not work anymore.

appmanga · 2020-08-16T16:29:58+00:00

Would a man think women knew more about men than men do?

Title	Learning from fish how to fish
Author	RedAsh521
Upvotes	2
Comments	9
Date	August 16, 2020 3:33 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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