Learning from naturals

2011-07-24T02:08:10+00:00

Be a cool person and befriend him? Hang out with him, model what he does.. As for stuff like when he's isolated, when you guys are good friends, he'll tell you stuff like that. My natural friend talks to me about that stuff all the time. Thing is, hopefully you remember that the natural that you're talking about, he's human too.

Edit: thanks to SexualTwinkie for bringing this up. Any kind of advice you get, you have to remember that you have to apply your own style and reality to it. Example: my natural friend is louder and more fun than I am, so him telling me to "be loud and jump around" wouldn't exactly fit my style or the situation I'm in.

rmbarnes · 2011-07-24T11:45:39+00:00

If you get friendly enough with him there's no reason you can't just ask him about picking up girls. That being said, naturals often never analysis what it is that makes them good, so you can get crap advice from them. Best advice is to emulate stuff that he does:

Watch his body language around girls
Pick up on his general vibe around girls
Talk to him about his mindsets around women. Naturals have good inner game in this area. You'll probably find that fucking women isn't a big deal to him. This is key.

One of my latest wings is a natural who has fucked 200 women. I'm trying to copy some of his mannerisms.

SexualTwinkie · 2011-07-24T16:12:22+00:00

You can't ask naturals for advice really, if yo do then you'll get answers that work for him in his own reality. You can hang out with them and learn through osmosis and learn the mindset. Learn the fundamentals of game through a teacher/mentor so you can start breaking down what the natural is doing.

sukka113 · 2011-07-24T10:23:36+00:00

to be honest, your probably going to benefit more in learning from your mistakes, build confidence and approach, and learn from where you go wrong. Imitating others style can only get you so far.

RedPosterboard · 2011-07-24T03:51:32+00:00

Just tell him what you just told us and invite him for dinner so he can tell you how he does it.

Title	Learning from naturals
Author	Drijidible
Upvotes	2
Comments	8
Date	July 24, 2011 1:17 AM UTC (15 years ago)
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