As your in-field experience increases so does your knowledge, here are some of my current lessons in daygame.
• Daygaming draws quite a bit of attention, people will be looking at you. It is just something you will have to get used to. Girls will talk their shit, dudes will observe attentively, and others may give you menacing looks. Girls in particular will usually be gossiping if they saw you approach, this is normal. Sometimes you are just walking by seeking out your next target and a group of girls make distinctive eye contact as they talk about you in an obvious matter. This tends to happen quite alot.
• If you go to a specific mall on a weekly basis, the people in the kiosks will begin to recognize you. At one point it is not a bad idea to befriend them and be brutally honest about what you are doing. that is alot better than being labeled as the creepy guy, and they may even help you in your quest by introducing you to their friends. Who knows if they witness your successes they may even become attracted to you.
• Girls usually respond with lame answers to questions such as "what do you for fun?" and "what are your plans for summer?" This is not because you haven't built enough attraction it's just the way it is. Your own input will be necessary to prolong the interaction. [Edit] rapid fire questions are to be avoided as it lowers your value. It also comes off as trying to force a conversation and this will remind her of the fact that you are strangers. Instead aim for sandwiching statements in with questions.
• in the beginning of an interaction a girl will only give you 10% which means you will be responsible for the other 90%. If you go in with a mentality of 50/50 you will only have 60% which is just not enough for a succesful approach.
• Basically approaching comes down to luck, skill, and a numbers game. By luck i mean some girls will be receptive and some wont. The game is played in those who are. By skill i mean as you improve you will be able to turn the tables on girls who are unresponsive. Do i really need to explain numbers game?
• The confidence you gain in approaching will bleed out unto other areas of your life. You may find yourself becoming more social, feel more at ease in public, or even droppping witty remarks from time to time.
• If you have to jog to catch up to a girl, remember to slow down before you reach her otherwise she will know you ran up to her and that will lower your value. Oftentimes they may even ask " did you just run up here?" or "it looks like you just ran over here" to which i've responded "yeah i totally had to chase you down" "aawww thats cute" -_- bitch! Lol im joking. Yeah so just avoid that. [Edit] It only takes 2 to 3 steps to be able to turn around and stop her in her tracks, i've made the mistake before of taking up to 5 steps and being a bit too far away from her. Another thing is, be aware of the glass windows as she may be able to see you coming up behind her and you will be in damage control if you open.
• Sometimes the frontal stop is not always possible as there may be people in front of her. In that case you settle for tapping the outside of her bicep or forearm with the inside of your palm. Watch the pressure you dont want to scare her, which has happened to me before, it should be a light tap or 1-2 second hold until she looks over to you.
• If a girl walks into a store as you are about to approach, it's not over. You still have the option of analyzing her body language and the way she moves through the store to see if she will be sticking around for long. Usually if she is just walking in to glance at the items she will stop by the first rack and move her way to the sides and come back around. This is fair game, if she goes directly to a specific section she'll be there for awhile, keep moving. After that you can decide if you want to wait for her. Just make sure she doesn't see you.
"Why do you have to wait until she leaves?" Because anytime you walk into a store catered to girls you will be drawing attention to yourself since you have no business being inside and there could be other potential targets in the store who you do not want to cancel out. That is why you wait. Even if you do it in the aisle there could be other girls watching but it wont be such a concentrated group of girls as opposed to the store. I've tried approaching the girls who have seen me do earlier approaches before just to experiment but it just doesnt work. Also if you do follow her in it just feels a bit creepy and that emotion will affect your delivery. If you can pull it off then go for it , just remember your cancelling out other potential sets.
[Edit] For girls who are going up or down the escalator you wait until she is a few steps towards the middle, hop on and wait to approach after she has continued walking.
• Locking in is one of the most important aspects of daygame. If you are directly in front of a girl or beside her, her feet are still pointed in the direction she intends to go and it will be very hard to hold her attention. Other times you get lucky or is it just skill? and a girl will directly turn to face you after a side approach. I like to call these: girls who are naturally receptive. I love those. Anyway as you are speaking after a frontal approach, either turn as you take a step forward and get her to face you, or lean up against the glass window closest to you. If you are on the second floor, the rails are also of use to you. Sometimes you may have to take a few steps toward it but as long as you are talking as you do this, she should follow.
As my approach number increases, more observations will arise. Any you might want to add?
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