Looking 4 help

ace_blau · 2025-09-02T19:19:59+00:00

For starters to become more confident you destroy all insecurities you have about yourself.

Life-Income2986 · 2025-09-02T20:01:04+00:00

No experience to speak of.

Here's your problem. If you want confidence, you haven't earned it. You have to behave yourself in a way you can be proud of for as long as it takes to convince yourself that there is something very valuable in what you offer. It takes years.

Confidence, luckily, is absolutely not necessary to date, but you will want to spend significant amounts of time around large groups of people of all genders who you don't know. Unless you want the process to confidence to take decades instead of years.

No-Compote-2127 · 2025-09-02T20:30:52+00:00

For me confidence comes from efforts and the progress I make.

Hit the gym, build some muscles, track your progress. Improve your style and grooming and observe how people treat you differently. Spending 10 extra minutes everyday to improve your haircut, skin care and clothing can bring huge change.

Socialize, make sure to remember people's name and find things in common to connect. Primary reason for guys not getting laid is simply because they are not going out meeting new people, taking part in events and social activities.

A lot of relationships start with you and your g.f having a friend, activity, social club, friends group, a project or a class in college in common.

It doesn't matter how good looking, rich or magnetic you are, if you are not socializing and not holding a meaningfull conversation with girls you are not going anywhere.

BurnItDownSR · 2025-09-04T20:23:46+00:00

Lol. The title made me think you were looking to hire a cleaner to set up your place before a date or something.

Title	Looking 4 help
Author	HF_Twat2004
Upvotes	4
Comments	10
Date	September 2, 2025 7:07 PM UTC (10 months ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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