So I'm newly getting back into the dating scene and coming out a long term relationship of many years I'm really trying to determine how I want to perceive the world, but more specifically the dating world.

So there are many ways to look at women and men interactions.

I predominantly see guys chasing women and trying to win them over. From my vantage point that seems to be the case with majority of people. So in essence the "game" is really just a tool that allows guys to break through the tests, barriers, and all the hurdles women erect to screen for the best potential mate.

With that dynamic, how do you all differentiate between those inherent barriers that are screening tools for women and the opposite, which is when a woman is clearly not into you, never will be and no matter how strong your game is, will never give you the time of the day.

I think this sort of ambiguity is what brings the most frustrations for single guys in our world. How to do you all reconcile that, and for those that are at peace with that interplay, what type of mindset do you have to have a healthy awareness of the dynamic and also function within it, and not feel like the pursuit is one big confusing endeavor that often times leads to rejection?