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[–]AHigherTruth 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Consider yourself lucky. Im 29 and maybe have had 5 girls ever approach me with only one being cute.
[–]wookhunter4203 points 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Sorry to hear that. If I weren’t good looking I’d probably still be a virgin
[–]JimBeamAndCoke2016 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Mid 30s here and less than that.
[–]AHigherTruth -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
lol honestly besides the one who was cute, 2 were kinda cute but just really obsessive, and 2 were really unattractive. I really wish I did hang out with the cute one, but I got really nervous because I couldn't believe she was even approaching me and I kinda screwed that one up. id probably rate myself a 7/10 though, im not very attractive but im not ugly either. ive only had about 3 girls my whole life and I know plenty of worse looking guys who've had more, so looks really don't mean anything.
[–]JimBeamAndCoke2016 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
You have the most important trait sorted - your looks.
Get the other stuff sorted out, such as confidence and personality, and you will start seeing better results.
Ultimately you are starting with a huge advantage that some of us could only wish for.
[–]EnvironmentalTwister 1 point2 points3 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Looks get you in the door but don't help you past that. Girls can find you attractive but if you're boring in conversation, and not a great personality overall they will be turned off
[–]luaudesign 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
Being tall/rich are actual advantages, but being good looking seems to increase a girls expectations and standards for you. Then you gotta be twice as cool, twice as confident, twice as social than everyone else, otherwise you can't meet their expectations. But you also can't be cocky or seem like base that confidence on your looks... it's a mess.
[–]JimBeamAndCoke2016 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I find that good looks allows a guy to make more fuck ups during the initial interaction.
An average to below guy would get blown out instantly, if he made the same fuck ups, but girls are a lot more forgiving to guys with good looks.
[–]Snazzy_Serval -1 points0 points1 point 7 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
This some sort of humble brag?
[–]wookhunter420 7 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link
No it’s just that I’m frustrated that someone who is supposedly very good looking has a lot of trouble with talking to and getting girls
[–]Snazzy_Serval 4 points5 points6 points 7 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
So I’m 20 but have only managed to bring home like 5 girls in the past year or two.
So I’m 20
but have only managed to bring home like 5 girls in the past year or two.
Yeah you're having lots of trouble alright.
You don't even know what frustration is.
[–]wookhunter420 7 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link
Look, what do I have to gain from “bragging” to people on reddit? So my numbers may not be terrible, but I’m frustrated that I see less attractive friends of mine get girls much more easily than me. I came here to ask for any tips you guys might have on approaching and conversation.
[–]iDidntReadOP 0 points1 point2 points 7 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I've been told I'm kinda attractive yet my roommate, who may be a little less conventionally attractive, slays. They might have lower standards, appeal to a different "demographic" (mine is into edgier goth chicks), or something else entirely. Or maybe your personality sucks. Not much to go on.
[–]wookhunter4201 point 7 years ago [recovered] | Copy Link
Yeah I think it’s because I’m more reserved and not what you would consider the “life of the party”. I guess girls would expect me to be more outgoing
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