I only ever approach girls at night in bars usually. I don't particularly struggle to at least say SOMETHING when gaming at night. I guess I just have autopilot openers and conversation starters for night game. ''Who are you here with, what are your plans for the night'' etc. It's at least somewhat socially acceptable to talk to strangers in pubs in the UK, but people don't do it in the day here, really. (especially down South!)

But I realised I have nothing for day game!

I'll give you the 3 situations, and maybe you can tell me what I should have done.

Girl 1 was working, stacking shelves. (Is this already a 'no no' since it's just lots harder??) Probably only about 17 years old. I opened her with a genuine question about the wifi. But after not much of a response, where do you go from there to start a new conversation thread? Do you ask her questions about her job? Like, if it was a super exciting job it might make sense, but if she's stacking shelves, that sort of thing could almost be considered sarcastic or an insult! (also maybe just a boring topic?) I honestly had no idea what to say and it was super awkward!

Next girl was alone at a bus stop waiting for a bus. I didn't need to get the bus! I just spotted her from across the road since she was hot. Again, how would you open and then transition? I know that I could open direct and be like ''I saw you and thought you were cute'', but even if I did that, then what? And how would I open if chose to go indirect? Just ask a fake question about the bus route? And then what??

Last girl was part of a 2-set. Both young again and in their work uniforms. Probably cashiers at the supermarket and they were walking somewhere together. If it was at night and around the bar scene, i'd have been like ''where are you 2 going?!! come over here. I wanna meet you'' etc, and then tried to be flirty, but it's just different at night and in a high octane environment. I didn't know what to say! These girls were probably too young to drink and it was still light outside and I just think it'd have been super weird.