Low energy vs. laidback

smoothmax · 2019-11-05T16:49:03+00:00

You can engage women in a sexual, but low kwy way.

For example if your friends are loud and boisterous just sit back, have fun enjoying them as if you're the king and they're the jesters.

People laugh at the jesters but ultimately are attracted to the king. Just don't be too aloof. You have to engage the girl(s) you want with eye contact at minimum.

You might do something low key but surprising and flattering. Such as, remember her name and use it casually in conversation. Just once is enough. Or when your friends are getting boisterous cross over and stand next to the girl as if it's so you can watch your friends. Stand close enough that you're touching, in a casual way.

Watch out for other quiet, cool guys and study what they do. What is their secret that makes them attractive to women despite not being high energy? Watch for the subtle signals that they give.

You have to work on your "quiet but cool and sexual" persona. Think about it, visualize being that guy and practice it, both in front of women and when you're alone with your friends.

Ultimately you will have to take charge and lead a girl in order to get dates and get laid. You can't play totally passive game. You will have to say, "Let's go" and lead her to the dance floor, to a couch to talk, outside for fresh air or food, or to your place.

Always keep your frame that you are a laid back, sexual guy who has no need to prove it by being a dancing monkey.

manonpoint_com · 2019-11-05T21:23:11+00:00

High energy is mostly helpful in a group setting. If you are not high energy in a group setting you will be "drowned out" by the high energy guys in the group and will not appear as attractive. It also helps even in a non-group setting, but it's not that big a deal. However, there's a difference between being "low-energy/laid back" and being boring. Don't get the two confused.

sinbad2011 · 2019-11-07T14:44:41+00:00

Its not about energy.

Its about intensity. That masculine piercing presence.

Atriev · 2019-11-05T16:36:38+00:00

Todd valentine talks about low energy + high intensity.

If you game with high intensity, low energy can work.

rich_god · 2019-11-05T17:18:53+00:00

I would use the words low frequency vs high frequency. You can be very low frequency, talk slowly, not engage people directly, but at the same very intense, mysterious, good eye contact, wise use of words, and have just as much success if not more. At the end it's just a matter of confidence, being yourself, and being connected to your body.

Title	Low energy vs. laidback
Author	floraltattoos
Upvotes	15
Comments	10
Date	November 5, 2019 4:11 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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