again this may be common knowledge but for me, something clicked yesterday probably, maybe even after i posted here?

anywho, there were these two women at the beach and they seemed receptive to chit chat with one asking if i planned on moving to the area.

well after some reflection & then today, using it in action at the airport, on the

  • Clear agent near TSA (machine freezes up and i joking say its because it knew i was coming)

  • another passenger waiting behind the glass like bored animals at the zoo (so i say aaaaah, the moment of truth,, so much anticipation)

  • & a lady in line at burger king (i say, hmmm i wonder if they have to raise the cow & grow the potatoes? it was taking forever)

what i did was to make sure that my tone or inflection matched the "subliminal" message of what i was trying to relay.

i changed my approach to, instead, focus more so on how i say something, IE, the delivery.

hope it helps. comments / feedback welcomed.