Mind going blank tips?

smoothmax · 2020-02-01T21:32:20+00:00

Just go with flow, smile and silently acknowledge that you have nothing say, but convey that she's welcome to speak.

One of the best DHVs (demonstrations of higher value) is the ability to chill and not insist on being the center of attention.

If you feel like you're always tongue tied and never getting anywhere, then do a daily visualization exercise where you imagine you're with a girl and that you're speaking, laughing and joking around easily. You don't have to imagine specific conversations, just imagine that it's happening and try to feel the happy feelings associated with it. This works surprisingly well.

grrinchas · 2020-02-02T16:47:09+00:00

If you have trouble to keep talking, then you can do this exercise:

Once per day pick some random item like "scissors", and try to talk for 2min non stop about it. Make it fun and interesting. Every day increase time. After a week you won't have any problem to talk about bullshit and make it fun.

EgoFuel · 2020-02-02T17:40:13+00:00

Here's some things that worked for me:

Practice with free association
Be a little ADHD (by a little I mean just like a dash of salt, too much will ruin the dish)
Don't focus on being logical with a girl, instead focus on delivering positive emotions. We seldom remember what was discussed whereas we tend to associate people with how they made us feel

Hope that helps a bit

Hubblenobbin · 2020-02-01T23:25:30+00:00

Having a lot of lines stored in a memory palace helps me. I have around 70 lines stored for different situations at the moment. If you google around a little you can figure out how to make memory palaces.

It's also important to develop the skill of being able to talk without filtering yourself at all. So dedicate some practice time to say whatever comes to mind when talking to girls. Like 40-100 approaches. Say whatever comes up, no matter how dumb.

Insaneflirt_max · 2020-02-02T05:56:07+00:00

Practice, less anxiety frees up your mind

Title	Mind going blank tips?
Author	Dominos-is-good-
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Date	February 1, 2020 8:05 PM UTC (6 years ago)
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