Movie date fail

herculesuprising · 2017-12-24T13:48:24+00:00

Dude, that's fucking awesome. Did you enjoy yourself? Did she? Fine, go from there. Be outcome independent, and consider this a win. Actually sometimes girls do not allow for escalation since they're in their period or whatever.

As for texting back, you can tell her you had a good time with her and invite her over to finally really watch that movie with her. Ofcourse this is not going to happen. What is going to happen is exactly what happened the first time, but now you're both more confident with the situation and you'll find it way easier to escalate further.

Remember to not project this frame of you failing here, as you didn't. You don't know if she thinks about it in that way at all.

Gl hf

Itz_A_Trap · 2017-12-24T16:55:26+00:00

While the answer posted here are correct as to where you should call this a ‘win’ I know in reality you’re also looking for the moves as to how to escalate the situation. Seeing that she was on top of you that’s very good news. I would suggest from there you put your hands all over her back (especially lower back/butt), this will give her great sensation! Next, take charge of the situation and flip her on the couch as to where you’re on top and start kissing parts of her body (starting from the neck and down to her belly) while moving one of your hands up and down her thigh slowly escalating to moving your hand to vagina (obviously with her pants still on you just want to tease her a little bit, and then move your hand away). Continue doing stuff like this for a little bit. Eventually you can try unbuttoning her pants with one arm while still kissing her. If she allows it you can always try taking off her pants but obviously don’t go further than she allows it to go. Eventually if you think things are going well I would just ask her if she would like to have sex(she might even ask if you have a condom before you have to ask consider she was the one that got on top of you first) Hope this helps!

Steve_Savage · 2017-12-24T17:46:30+00:00

Never drink, it inhibits your game. Quit thinking so much and let nature takes its course. When it comes to sex whatever feels good is what you do.

l1ght- · 2017-12-24T21:08:54+00:00

I agree with the other guys here, this is a win.

Message her what herculesuprising said, and when you meet up this time - you will have more confidence because you know it is possible now.

I can't really advise anything specific about what to do - you just have to feel what is right in the moment.

Don't be afraid to try something, you already have won by kissing her - anything extra is a bonus.

c4czn · 2017-12-24T16:07:08+00:00

Much like the other comments, I believe this was a W experience, you just couldn’t execute when it matter, but say no more. All you gotta do is invite her out again, but this time “be the captain” like you said she’s inexperienced so you just gotta whip it out and dominate... ofc with consent

zbf · 2017-12-24T14:19:17+00:00

You are completely overthinking. This is a win in my book, its great experience. Just invite her out again.

I had a similar thing happen to me on a tinder date. We went back to hers for drinks after the bar. I threw her on the bed and we started kissing. Im a virgin at this point btw, in fact never even kissed. She tells me to take my shoes off ( cleanliness freak) and thats where my energy just died. We just laid there talking before i left. We didnt go out again, we were just looking for a quick hookup via tinder. But i learned from the experience, which was just keep escalating.

Title	Movie date fail
Author	throwawaylucky777
Upvotes	0
Comments	6
Date	December 24, 2017 1:10 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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