Ok so let's hear some feedback from the group.

Summary..my ex and i separated, she had totally hot friend they stopped talking about 4 yrs prior to my separation for whatever reason.

When she used to come around, her and I always had a good vibe and great convo..I think my.ex was a little jealous honesty ..I digress

Fast forward.. we reconnected and I updated her on my current situation . Im seperated ,etc .She was sad to hear this and offered her support and we still keeps in touch but I see theres some sexual tension.

She will text me drunk at 1am to bash the shitty guys shes dating and always telling me how much of a good guy I am..yada yada

Shes invited me to visit her at work, agian good vibes.. I have tried to push the flirting to more but I'm thinking I need to do something with her or invite her somewhere for the weekend. I find when you take women out if there environment they are more open (every heard of spring break) 🤣

She interested but I think shes aphrehesive given the history we have but She sends me flirty pics and quotes about relationships and recovery and jokes about us going to strip clubs together.

One time I asked her if she would ever have a 3some with me and my now ex , she said she would but my ex would not be able handle it.lol ..(yeah what a response)...so we have some sexual tension.

Mind you I have not done anything physical with her prior so now that there is no boundaries I'm crossing I'm like fuck it..

Ok so What's my next move ?

Just tell her upfront ..let's be FWB ? I have nothing to lose really and our friendship is still there..so I'm not worried about that or should I just avoid this whole space and all the extra luggage and stick with fresh girls.

Yes I'm attracted to her and shes around my age But I think shes gonna to look for a more solid thing vs my Fwb Model, but I could ne wrong.

Mind you theres some comfort since we have history so the sex would be amazing but my get her too emotional connected. Guess it depends on where her heads at and what shes looking to have with me..

Thoughts from girls and guys appreciatated.