So is my birthday soon
I think I’m gonna throw a birthday party picnic and inviting my friends and acquaintances as well.

I think maybe this time I can invite girls I have met on dating apps and some girls that in my social circle that I have interest, but didn’t really have a chance to interact with.

There is a plus side for this, which is;
-This can raise my social status and sending messages to other women that I know other attractive women in my social circle exists. This giving out pre-selection and I’m safe and interesting guy enough to be around pretty women.

There is also downside for this;
-they can become friends and share stories if I make any move or hook up with one by one of them,

the words will spread out, and it can actually ruin my reputation in my genuine friend group.

-actually there is one LTR girl I have been in relationship with but she has been messaging other guys and got caught.

Im detached from her emotionally already and just keeping her basically for physical convenience for myself until i cant. But we are not broken up yet. So technically and officially we are still together so i have to take her to the picnic. I wanna use her as also a sign of pre selection like other girls in the picnic.

Im just concerned if she becomes a friend to girls i was interested in or ive met on dating app to make move in the future. So it can get ugly like i said.

Any thoughts and tips from seasoned PUA would be appreciated. Thank you 😊