If I'm only trying to talk to women who are attractive for friendship, isn't that sort of shallow and backwards? By prioritizing looks over actual personality I am literally lying and acting like I enjoy this person's company when I actually don't.

Ideally the ultimate alpha should have an abundance of attractive female friends in order to make meeting women easier, which I'm trying to become, but isn't it ass to act like I enjoy talking to this person so hopefully one day she will let me meet her friends?It's like you guys say, stop "trying" to meet women just be you and be social and things will happen, but naturally I am not particularly interested in the attractive females. It seems shallow because I know tons of 3-5 looking girls who are very interesting but the fact that id ignore them just to talk to someone who is prettier(and for potential lays) is horrible. Since when I was a kid to my age now everytime I naturally make a friend idgaf about how "cool" they make me look. I make friends based on the person's sense of humor and interests, and Id rather not sacrifice the dopamine from actually having a good time for being bored with a pretty friend.

TLDR: If the only reason your making attractive female friends is to use them to get laid, how is that any different from just cold, direct approaching women? It's all for the same shallow reason so your literally faking the whole friendship.

P.S. I am concerned about this because I was trying to figure how to change my life and get a gf/hookups, and these guides usually say you have to develop a social life first especially with attractive females.