My recent experience with the 3 second rule

scrubLord24 · 2020-01-14T18:12:14+00:00

Whereabouts were you in the original one where you missed out? Just wondering.

vipul21dec · 2020-01-14T19:07:09+00:00

Even I'm new to the game and I always regretted goin out and not approaching. This happened for a week straight, I would go out as I just don't approach. But luckily I made my first approach a day later after the week and it felt so good. The girl I rated was a 9 and I even got the IOI's which I only understood after coming home. I didn't ask for her number though since I fucked up in the middle.

But I learnt that approaching is the key to success. Since then I have made up in mind that I won't even follow mysterys 3 second rule, I would just straight away go talk to the girl if I like her because taking time only makes me think of excuses and then at the end I fuck up.

Reha_A · 2020-01-14T20:08:59+00:00

I believe that's a discipline to cultivate into your system, you gotta be knowing that the pain of not approaching is too big, you can take the first minutes of pain by just having that big dive into the cold ocean water at the beginning. Well cause it's just how your brain works if you don't approach, your brain will give you all that shit to drag you down and after you start to think and micro-manage it's all downhill. That's why when I am in the venue or somewhere where I can talk to girls I give myself the first 10 minutes rule, the approach must be done in first 10 minutes or my night will suck. It's a choice I make for myself, either living in dirt or going for the results that I want to see in my life.

NecessarySpark · 2020-01-15T08:45:15+00:00

Hey man, glad that you are out there and approaching people!

High-__-there · 2020-01-16T00:31:07+00:00

You dont have to do this all the time. Maybe its good sometimes in night club setting but its also fun to play a slower subtle game. After initial eye contact you can check out other people and get comfortable in your environment. Let her check you out. Be cool, pretend your the star in a movie. Check her out again, let her see you looking at her body, scan up her legs, tummy, chest and lock eyes and think sexual or comfort (girls are good mind readers you can mindbeam thoughts and emotions into them). If she seems attracted you could go approach or continue doing your thing be cool have fun and approach later if you want

jestercake · 2020-01-15T09:50:43+00:00

It’s a stupid rule. What if you see a beautiful women but 4 seconds go by? Does that mean “oh I failed the rule too late now may as well walk awayand never approach her and never know what could have happened.”

Just approach fast and forget the number of seconds. and if you take too long approach anyway.

Title	My recent experience with the 3 second rule
Author	jestercake
Upvotes	73
Comments	29
Date	January 14, 2020 4:31 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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