My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)

Xstream2 · 2012-07-12T04:18:08+00:00

S.C.U.B.a

zytox · 2012-07-12T04:13:37+00:00

Yeah. Pretty sure that says S.C.U.B-A.

Might as well call it the Self Contained Underwater Breathing Aperatus model.

T3hJ3hu · 2012-07-12T21:11:05+00:00

I would disagree that "badass" associates with "leadership" (and therefore a true Alpha type). Most social leaders I know associate far stronger with coolness than badassery. Badasses are guys you don't want to fuck with; leaders are guys you wish you could spend more time with.

What I find most interesting about this, though, is that these four attributes line up almost perfectly with the four primary archetypes of masculine psychology.

Sexiness = Lover = Sensuality, pleasure, passion, and beauty

Coolness = King = Sociability, order, leadership, and protection of his "kingdom"

Uniqueness = Magician = Reflective, spiritual, intellectual, and creative

Badass = Warrior = Detachment, aggression, skill, and adaptability

HPeroit · 2012-07-12T06:05:05+00:00

A couple of disagreements.
1) Coolness. I will say that my coolness comes from my lack of extroversion; being aloof can be sexy. It can also give off that not giving a fuck, and that sexy cockiness of "nah, I'm not gonna approach anyone in this place." It is a great play if you eye a girl and really really want her, but you don't want to seem desperate.
Look at her a few times throughout an hour. Turn down advances to talk from other women (unless they are sexier obviously). The girl you want won't stand a chance. She will see it as a challenge to get you. From that point you could take it two ways... a) wait for her to approach you and be somewhat dismissive and monosyllabic yet keeping her just interested enough and slide in a slight crack of a smile if she says something that would normally make you grin. b) go approach her. This will catch her off guard and is my preferred option. If you saw her observing her and have made eye contact she will recognize that you haven't done much... maybe aren't impressed with the scene, the people there, the liquor... but guess what... you are impressed with her (relatively speaking) and she likes that.
2) the other thing i have a bit of trouble with is that this list is sans "intelligence." This is a key one. talk in a way that makes a woman (or anyone for that matter) pay a bit more attention to what you say because they don't quite understand it initially. Be comfortable with metaphors (only if they apply) and use words that one might not always recognize but would understand in the context. This will make them feel smart by piecing together what the word means and make them think you are smart for using the word. Additionally, speak softly. Don't be quite. Don't mumble. Not even gently. Just don't yell.
Pause often. Be like an actor that pays attention to cues... Don't fill the air with a "well" "uhhh" or "so" right when she finishes talking. Wait 3-10 seconds. Say something. Pause. Wait until about 3 seconds before she thinks that was the end of your statement... then say something else.
went off on a bit of a tangent, but it is just some food for thought. I guess it was what should be changed/included and a vague example of why. I dig the list though. well done.

xyals · 2012-07-12T16:46:29+00:00

Thanks dude. A very nice and brief cheat sheet. Will save for future reference.

VMikeL · 2012-07-12T16:23:55+00:00

There's a simpler one: Health, Wealth, Relationships. Adam Lyons talked about it in his free webinar that is available for download somewhere (friend droboxed it).

As far as sexiness though, sexiness has actually very little to do with the physical (for females->Males). You can have a six pack, and be awkward as shit. It's about that smile, that glare, the way you dress, and how you own it. Also some girls aren't turned on by typical "sexiness" some girls like slightly more social nerdy, geeky types, in fact one of my friends who's a demanded model admitted this to me (hooray).

One thing I would like to hear from you is your justification as to why you think these things are universally attractive for men?

Title	My "S.C.U.B." attraction model (work in progress, give feedback)
Author	Xstream2
Upvotes	10
Comments	31
Date	July 12, 2012 4:03 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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