Need a Sedditors Expertise.

buttresidue · 2012-03-26T04:02:37+00:00

I want to point out that I think asking her if she got your messages was a mistake. Just message her again the next day or two and act like the first one didn't even happen. Second off, don't chase her. If a time comes up, great, go for it. Don't ask her if she's free every day. It's like a kid in the car saying are we there yet.

SirFluff · 2012-03-26T04:28:16+00:00

I agree with most points of what buttresidue (lol) said. They usually did get your message, they just chose not to answer. The first time, fine you could let that slide but you knew damn well she got the second message.

Though from what I'm seeing, I don't see things looking too well for you right now. If she wanted to see you, she'd see you. You offered her all these plans to see her, and she couldn't meet any of them nor did she even attempt to give you a counter offer.

As for your dinner plans, I think you've made your interest fairly open by now. You're trying to find time to see her, she just isn't making the time to see you. Why are you trying to woo a girl who isn't trying to woo you? You're putting in 90% of the effort, she hasn't done a damn thing for you. She can't even be bothered to answer your messages, and you're gonna try to sweep her off her feet? You can do better than that.

I'd say to lay off a little bit. You've done all the chasing, she hasn't attempted any interest on her part yet. You'd be better off setting your resources on someone who would take the time out to answer you. If you do get to go out on the dinner with her, I honestly would say not to expect much. Go out and have fun with it, see what happens, but from what you've written, no matter how successful your date is - you'll always be putting in way more effort than she is.

atafies · 2012-03-26T04:55:33+00:00

Someone above has addressed it but I'll say it again for emphasis: stop your habit of asking if she got your messages. It comes off as a bit needy. Like the earlier post said, just pretend those messages didn't happen and wait a few days before messaging again. Your working around her schedule and if her interest level was the same/higher than yours then she would be trying to make time for you, I'd say to lay off for a bit and try talking to some other people/girls.

aaronob · 2012-03-26T08:07:29+00:00

I'm no expert, but so far I've had the best luck just telling them instead of asking them. Instead of asking when she's free and relying on her to plan it out, tell her to meet you at location A at B time. If she's busy, you're SOL. Try a few days later.

Title	Need a Sedditors Expertise.
Author	kman43332
Upvotes	0
Comments	5
Date	March 26, 2012 2:03 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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