Need a texting advice

iceking123 · 2022-05-19T16:40:21+00:00

Need more context. Who is this girl? What is the vibe between you? Would she perceive you inviting her over to your place as coming out of nowhere? Has she even met you yet? If no, you needed to tease the interaction out a bit more instead of going 0 to 100 like you did. You're also too sold. Playful skepticism is your friend and helps draw out the interaction more and build investment.

Her: Okay, I’ll bring the dessert

Me: Hmm... what kind of dessert we talking. I'm a distant relative of Baskin and Robbins.

Then you continue to banter about that for a bit, get a sense of her schedule, and then maybe pitch the date at your place. But I also rarely use the words "my place."

Anyway, for your situation now, you might say something like "lol... sounds like an elaborate dessert" to keep the conversation going, which is what you should've done in the first place.

Romantic_Adventurer · 2022-05-19T15:07:09+00:00

Remember: people who are interested in you and want to see you, they are interested in you and want to see you. The ones who don't, don't. So...

Open more sets, meet new people, always be testing, take excellent care of your physical fitness and mental health, learn how to make more money and just repeat forever.

Don't waste your time with people who don't care about you. Focus on finding the person who is interested in you and create sincere fun, invite them to your adventure and of course, make the seks happen.

Thank you for sharing!

GhostGlitch1 · 2022-05-20T06:08:34+00:00

My immediate interpretation of this is, bluntly, that's too soon to be intimate, in a thinly veiled way. The euphemism is very clear to me.

That said, it sounds like she (had?) interest on that level, but unfortunately it would seem that's taken a hit. Best of luck there mate.

crypto69retard · 2022-05-20T05:48:06+00:00

Ask her to bring the dessert that’s between her legs.

redditor4206903 · 2022-05-20T07:57:44+00:00

Dont use snapchat, snap is for friends. WA and ig is for Ballers. Delete snap. Text her for 2 days maximum and ask her out. If she declines. Ask her again next week. If she declines (gives a bullshit excuse why not) than ignore her. If she still follows you/likes your shit/ watches your stories. Than hit her up after a couple of months. Make sure to leave her on seen, after she declines you. She might change her mind. And do not give her any attention for the couple of months. You suould do this to multiple chicks to have a steady flow of women.

SigmundFreud · 2022-05-20T06:19:31+00:00

In this situation I would have one of my interns text her "6:01pm then" and increment by a minute every time she said no. Eventually I'm sure she'll agree just to shut you up. If you don't have interns, you could hire a programmer to automate your replies instead.

prshntk · 2022-05-20T09:56:57+00:00

Hope we are talking about the same dessert

Title	Need a texting advice
Author	iceking123
Upvotes	15
Comments	24
Date	May 19, 2022 2:57 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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