Hello, I am 22, I assume quite attractive due to the behavior of women around me and what I've been told, but I can struggle a bit in social interactions which makes most of my problems interacting with women.

My objective is to seduce women in night clubs for hookups, and these last months I managed to get myself to be more comfortable with cold approaches even if it is not very intuitive for me. However I don't have success so far with starting the interaction, so I wonder if men here who have success with the same kind game can give me some advice.

Since I am now living in Poland women here are less outgoing and don't approach or organically dance with me as I've experienced in other countries (especially Sweden), so I don't really have a choice to directly cold approach to get their attention (and this is more or less what other men seem to do).

What I've started to do concretely is to first get their attention with a touch on the shoulder and when they look at me I show them a hand inviting them to dance. They don't seem displeased by the interaction but all I get are polite refusals, at best with a smile, but I don't manage to get them to dance with me. I also a few times tried to talk to them first to get a slower interaction but I just get ignored.

Given my dark/reserved personality I assume this is the most suitable way for me to approach, even if the other men seem to be more forward without necessarily much more success. I usually see them just take the girl to dance with seeming to ask her mind, which I'm pretty doubtful of as it feels like not respecting their consent, and the girl in question seem to leave quickly after. For this reason while it seems to be what men here are doing I don't feel like I should do that especially as such high-energy behavior doesn't suit me much.

I've approached not much more than 10 women so far so I don't have big numbers yet, though the response seems to be always the same. With these information, do you think there is something in my approach that I really must do differently to get success, or will I simply find out the subtleties to make it work with more time and experience ?

Retrospectively it feels like they are just rejecting me as a default reaction without taking more time to decide, but I don't really see so far what I can do so they feel more comfortable with interacting with me