Need Help! Competition going on here.

MARSpu · 2012-01-26T19:20:22+00:00

Let go of the competition. Let it go. She'll come onto you more if you do. Don't hang out with her more because you're afraid; hang out with her less because you have better things to do.

Also, if he overnegs her, he isn't going very far. Keep your frame and you'll do fine - it seems like he's trying to AMOG you.

themanbat · 2012-01-27T05:18:42+00:00

Many females in the class... All of them cute... And you two have to fight over the same one? Divide and conquer!

MonkeySteriods · 2012-01-26T22:19:28+00:00

Just tell her "hes a nice guy you should go for him" or come up with reasons why it would never work between you and her [saying it to her]

BrianKPSMark · 2012-01-26T19:09:57+00:00

The man who hangs out with her first will win. If you've established a relationship with her think of what she would perceive as valuable and invite her out to it with you with no other intention than to hang out.

Try something fun that she couldn't say no to. Laser Tag, Go Karts, Roller Skating, Sports Bar... anything where you guys can chill but have that "attraction" vibe going with the fun things you're doing

kohlio · 2012-01-26T19:13:38+00:00

Since I don't have relevant field experience I'm going to have to quote the masters.

This thread got into some nice "AMOG" techniques which is sort of what you're looking for. DogSoldier pretty much nailed it, and Mankite had a good followup.

The original Player Guide had a few articles on boyfriend destroyers and I believe there was a recent thread on Seddit about it.

The other thing I would tell you is that your entire line of questioning suggests you are a little intimidated by this guy, and that means his game is working. So just get back in the game and don't get sucked into his game.

kohlio · 2012-01-27T11:58:09+00:00

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toocool4u · 2012-01-27T15:44:14+00:00

let me ask you this, do you like the girl or the job?

The_Fart_Of_God · 2012-01-27T16:08:41+00:00

he is AMOGing you. The correct answer is to describe what he is doing in a casual nonreactive way : "oh that's funny, you see he just said that to..." when he'll try to defend himself he'll lose because he will be qualifying himself and you will also describe that.

most importantly : you don't care.

2012-01-27T20:08:20+00:00

Go strike up conversations with the other 10 attractive girls in the class.

indigObstacle · 2012-01-26T23:53:48+00:00

This is not a helpful attitude. Let it be.

If he gets her, then so be it.

If you get her, then so be it.

Title	Need Help! Competition going on here.
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Date	January 26, 2012 6:30 PM UTC (14 years ago)
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