Need help on how to compliment women

Strngth-in-wknss · 2017-08-07T11:03:21+00:00

Compliments are best used sparingly. If you tell a girl she is beautiful everyday that she is beautiful, it will stop being meaningful. But if she hears it from someone who holds back validation from her, it will mean a lot.

It is not gonna do a lot if you tell a really beautiful girl that she is beautiful. It may even associate you in her mind with a loser that can't see anything past her beauty and is nervous by it.

However, compliments can be a powerful tool with girls that are a bit insecure, but you can't come right out and say it. You are trying to make girls feel good feelings, and if you have enough power over her and you make her feel validated, that will make her have a good feeling. But Yyou have to be subtle about it, if out of the blue you say, "you are so beautiful", to a girl who you are not very close with yet, it looks like you are trying to do the classic nice-guy 'I want to trade niceness for sex' and it will scare her off in a big way.

The most effective way to compliment a girl is with your face alone. When you see for the first time and she looks really good, exaggerate your natural reaction for your eyes going wide, pull your head back, and if you are really sure you aren't making a fool of yourself gape your mouth open just a tad. You can add a bit of surprise to your eyebrows. This should all happen naturally, but instead of hiding it, let your face emote to the fullest extent. She will feel this the most deeply because it is an automatic reaction, and thus has no pretense or motive.

The next best way is treating it as something you are bit embarrassed about saying but something that has to be said. Something like, "hope this isn't weird at all but you look incredible today". The key is softening the creepiness of it with an awareness that it may come off as creepy. It has to be out of the blue, it can't seem like you worked up the courage to say it. And you have to be a bit shy about it. Obviously if you like a girl more you will be shyer about putting yourself out there, but to a certain relatively small level, it is cute when you are vulnerable like that.

Lastly is using very weak language to compliment, like, "You look very nice today". This really won't help you in game so I'd say try and avoid this.

MurdererRapist · 2017-08-07T11:24:09+00:00

I dunno man...I always go with, "AYE BB, WNT SM FK!!"

DirkDieGurke · 2017-08-07T15:43:20+00:00

Pick something about the girl that really piques your interest. Feel it. Say it.

Cantloginhere · 2017-08-07T12:49:45+00:00

You gotta sandwich it and fractionate.

Hey, I know hot girls are dumb but i need some advice....

Wow nice legs, but those shoes suck, etc.

Or throw it in between random sentences. Always balance it and never wait for a reaction.

Obviously nice shoes but your legs look fat won't go down well so temper the push back ;/

Title	Need help on how to compliment women
Author	nefosjb
Upvotes	5
Comments	8
Date	August 7, 2017 5:50 AM UTC (9 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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