Need sex tips

HistorianGreat5386 · 2026-06-15T14:49:10+00:00

Assume that you won't be able to make her cum by fucking. You have to make her cum first by using your fingers or going down on her. The thumb rule I follow is to make her pleasure a priority before mine. You'll get even more in return

Sharp-Holiday2619 · 2026-06-15T17:27:06+00:00

Use your hands

Pedalcrunch · 2026-06-15T13:00:26+00:00

kiss for a long time then do oral.

norwegiandoggo · 2026-06-15T12:56:16+00:00

Does she have some experience with masturbating / sex? Ask her if she has come before and what things usually bring her to orgasm. Communication is key here. Some women already know exactly what you should do to make her cum, so then you can just do that exact thing.

If she has no clue, the best bet is vibrator to the clit (number 1 choice), or long oral sex (think 10 minutes+). Learn to lick puss. These are generally the easiest paths for most women.

Elegant-Wolf-12 · 2026-06-16T20:39:25+00:00

The key is to be exquisitely present with her body and your desire. Slow down. Conduct passion through your hands, then your mouth, then your cock. Be there with her, really get curious, really worship her. Then possess her with gusto.

Your pleasure and her pleasure ride the breath. That’s the secret to lasting long

https://open.spotify.com/episode/1wYrq0kiF32CyeK5MWgaaL?

AKMASTERY1 · 2026-06-15T13:06:29+00:00

Go on ph dude you think dudes in here are getting laid lmao

vertascend · 2026-06-16T09:49:14+00:00

I think you need to go to the sex advice forum

Ovaderr · 2026-06-16T19:59:19+00:00

Vibrators work real good for making her cum. Do your thing then when you are done use the vibrator to finish her with it.

Ok-Acanthisitta-4297 · 2026-06-17T20:04:13+00:00

Buy a small vibrator (bullet)

Training_Post_5896 · 2026-06-17T23:20:03+00:00

Foreplay, lots and lots of foreplay.

likeshismetal · 2026-06-19T14:08:24+00:00

Google: Nina Hartley Teaches How To Eat Pussy Like A Champion (Sunny Lane)

Every man reading this should watch this.

comacove · 2026-06-21T21:37:19+00:00

you can look up this and that, but the answer is the source: her. ask her. when im with a girl at first, when i set up safe words, i ask her, when im about to go down on her (or finger her), i tell her i only need four words from her and that i want her to be vocal about it if she needs to be: harder, softer, faster, slower. I make her repeat those words, just like the safe word, and then i give her a kiss and proceed.

being open to figuring it out with a chick allows her mind to calm down and open up to you. when she knows she is safe and trusts you, you are going to get the best version of her. yeah, there is a time to impress, and yeah, this might go hand in hand, but blowing her mind is what will make you memorable. imo.

Title	Need sex tips
Author	varun1331
Upvotes	3
Comments	24
Date	June 15, 2026 12:50 PM UTC (1 month ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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