Never getting second dates

RadioGuyRob · 2019-10-29T21:48:47+00:00

Probably because you're approaching them with a success rate of "physical accomplishments" as opposed to "emotional connection."

As much as you bunch of fucksticks want to treat women as pussies with extra skin attached, they're actually people, too. And if you treat them like such, they'll probably be more interested in you.

Imperator_Pyra · 2019-10-30T11:24:39+00:00

Honestly, I think you're doing VERY well.

You're doing many approaches, and you achieved what seems to be a decent (for a beginner, of course) approach to lay ratio. Congratulate yourself on that.

I've had trouble getting second dates as well, even with girls who, by the end of the first date, strongly suggested that they want to see me again. Maybe there's an explanation for that, but so far it just seems that girls are flaky like that...

goonerguy101 · 2019-10-30T16:23:59+00:00

300 approaches, how many of these woman did you actually find attractive? I don’t understand the point of approaching so many woman because it just leads to situations like this.

jin-sookwon · 2019-10-30T20:40:45+00:00

Op this is exactly why you should seek qualified advice and not listen to everyone on the internet. 90% of these tools don’t even cold approach.

Three months w plenty of opportunities but no successes is a red flag 🚩 for your game.

If you don’t fix this soon it’s gonna get a lot worse. At this point your projecting something that repels women.

justahappyidiot · 2019-10-30T03:09:55+00:00

How much are you relying on techniques and gimmicks, as opposed to more natural conversation?

How much are you letting them talk? 50/50?

Are you steering the conversation to be exciting, playful, fun and sexy? Or are you covering birth place, college, work history, travel history, favorite TV show, etc?

After the date, what's your text game like?

At what point do you bring up a second date?

How old are you, physical attractiveness and what kind of women are you taking on dates?

Title	Never getting second dates
Author	jikol1906
Upvotes	3
Comments	7
Date	October 29, 2019 9:10 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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