New to the game. Help needed.

Willem20 · 2013-06-15T10:45:14+00:00

You can't control a woman, fucking understand that first. If she didn't think you were her type, move on.

Besides that: you're new to the game, don't expect miracles to happen so soon.

VMikeL · 2013-06-15T11:13:00+00:00

This story is kind of hard to believe as it is, but I'm giving you the benefit of the doubt. You actually have a really shitty attitude, which is likely the core of your inabilty to get the women you want, and you need to deal with that first. The blonde tried to let you down easy, likely because she thought you dressed like a 10 year old boy, and just had nothing in common, but you didn't respond with any level of masculinity, cussing her, trying to take value away.

You are incredibly entitled, and from the sounds of it, are a interviewer, conversationalist, not someone with game. By this I'm adamant you didn't qualify, kino, escalate; physically and socially, you made her laugh, but you weren't building rapport, also are you sure she was laughing with you and not at you?

TL;DR: Your attitude stinks, you sound entitled as shit, you probably should go to /r/malefashionadvice for tips, and "check yourself... before you wreck yourself."

pschr · 2013-06-15T12:19:14+00:00

If she gave you a lot of positive signals beforehand and then worried about you being her type, then that sounds like a shit test. You should reframe and make her qualify. Read the sidebar on shit tests to get a more thorough answer.

ysef95 · 2013-06-15T10:37:30+00:00

you didnt give any clear details of the interaction so its difficult to judge what you did wrong I would say in general dont think about game as a means of getting one specific woman rather as a means of improving yourself to the point that girls will find you more attractive so start working out read some books read all the sidebarred content here and find some routines or outer game that you can use.

either that or youre a troll who can piss aff

Billyb97 · 2013-06-15T10:30:47+00:00

You should have invited her back to your place and gotten with her and shit

Title	New to the game. Help needed.
Author	seductionthrowaway34
Upvotes	0
Comments	31
Date	June 15, 2013 9:56 AM UTC (13 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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