No luck at Tinder, tips?

dr-funkenstein- · 2015-06-01T18:21:33+00:00

One picture isn't gunna cut it. Need a good one of your face without sunglasses on. The bio doesn't matter much IMO. I've had a lot of success with it with nothing but a stupid joke as my bio.

pqowie313 · 2015-06-01T18:48:31+00:00

Make your bio stupid. Any attempt to make yourself seem more attractive in a few words usually just makes you seem like a total asshole. (I own a '65 mustang and like to play my vintage gibsons on my yacht after a long day of golfing...) Maybe throw in a bit of basic info, but really, that's unnecessary, just stick with a stupid joke.

And you're going to need more pictures. Find "value adding" ones, but what goes for the bio goes for pictures too. Stick to one picture with a nice car / musical instrument / expensive suit / concert (or none if it doesn't feel right), and make the rest sports / beach / party / just chilling pictures or selfies. (Balance is key, too many of one and they'll think that's all you do.) If you're having a good time in your pictures, chances are the girls will assume they'll have a good time with you.

TabletopPong · 2015-06-01T19:21:02+00:00

Actually i have a handy guide saved for this, Enjoy!

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/2q3nvk/the_ultimate_tinder_cheat_sheet/

Romnonaldao · 2015-06-01T18:16:09+00:00

What does your Bio say? Maybe its too direct

blaziken24 · 2015-06-01T18:21:28+00:00

Upload some more pictures (3 or 4), preferably alone so women won't have to guess who are you among the others. Try to include some hobbies in the pictures, like sports.

xXxBluESkiTtlExXx · 2015-06-01T18:38:52+00:00

More pictures for sure, make your bio funny, maybe even stupid, and as always, follow rules number 1 and 2.

enkae7317 · 2015-06-01T21:57:57+00:00

/r/tinder

johnny_77 · 2015-06-02T02:58:00+00:00

Oh man, I kicked ass on Tinder, met my current gf on there, so seeing as I'm out of the game for now I guess it won't hurt to help my former competition.

Ok, for starters your profile picture is THE MOST IMPORTANT PART. If it sucks, no one will even bother reading more about you. Also, this is different from real life, being attractive may not cut it either, you have to stand out. What I did was make an over-the-top, crappy photoshop. It looked like I did it on paint, I put my face over a super ripped fireman holding a puppy. It may sound dumb, but it makes women pause.

Then, for my bio, I had "photoshop expert" as the introduction. A lot of women approached me and said stuff along the lines of "great photoshop skill ;)"

If your profile picture draws them in successfully, have other pictures showcasing the multidimensional aspects of your personality, hobbies, recreation, work, but most importantly look fun and don't fake it. Picture of you on your buddy's motorcycle but you don't ride? Bad idea, she's going to want you to take her for a spin. Also, make sure it reflects who you are, no point in having a picture of you in a suit if you're more of an outdoorsy type guy. This is where I sort of went wrong, I would try and attract women obviously different from me just because they were hot, then we'd go out and have nothing in common. I'm a blue-collar type guy who likes working on motorcycles and playing music in bars, went on a date with a District Attorney who enjoys art-shows and travelling the world, didn't go well (although some high-powered women are into scruffy guys as a guilty pleasure, but it's easier if the two of you are somewhat matched up)

Your bio should be short, stupid, and sweet. Nobody wants to read a novel and women are attracted to a little mystery, so don't be too forthcoming with who you are. I like to go to bars and get tattoos, but instead of saying "Hi, I'm so and so, I like to drink on the weekends and get tattooed" I said "Bartenders and tattoo artists are able to send their kids to college because of me."

Anyway, any questions and I'll try to provide some guidance, good luck!

Title	No luck at Tinder, tips?
Author	MeMrPenetration
Upvotes	0
Comments	9
Date	June 1, 2015 6:11 PM UTC (11 years ago)
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