I'm a good looking guy, 22 and just out of college. In my college days we had being in the same college in common plus most of my action was from drunk nightouts where chatting wasnt important. Now that im out in the real world, my convo with girls only goes as far as strong flirting with the intention of bedding her and I will admit most of it is just shallow talk that doesnt work as well as it did in University as some of the girls I approach are 25+ and they want something deeper or whatever. So how do I reduce the dirty flirting and actually build up a connection? I'll also admit to being a bit of a narcissit that doesnt really care for girls feelings, but I will care temporarily if itll make my situation better? Do i talk about their childhood and all that? I dont want it to be boring either, a balance between naughty and caring would be awesome I suppose. Can somebody give me some dialouge examples that have worked for you? Thanks in advance