Not getting action at Night clubs

YesImTheAsshole_ta · 2022-01-04T21:24:46+00:00

Try going out without trying to get laid. Go out with your boys, go out with a group of female friends. Learn to have fun in non sexual social settings first (walk before you can run). Have the attitude that you can take or leave any women that may or may not come into your life that night. If they do vibe with you, start with the intention and goal of getting their contact to meet another time (aka byo Ho somewhere else so you don’t have to worry about picking them up in the club)

Yes attitude and energy are important, but don’t listen to any of these fools reinforcing misguided priorities of looks external shit (yes, start with what you can control in your appearance) but what amateurs fail to recognize is that night club pick up is playing the game on the hardest mode. Girls have their guard up the highest because most guys see them as a piece of meat, they are out with friends that will judge them, and there’s a dozen other slick smooth good looking motherfuckers trying to get their dick wet. Day game is easier by far, but it takes some balls or finesse. Maybe start with quiet chill bar game first and try to do well there before worrying about what’s wrong with you because you don’t get attention at the club. Most guys don’t, it’s okay.

thelambofdeth · 2022-01-04T12:11:35+00:00

Perhaps you're ugly

PontusOfMars · 2022-01-07T08:17:32+00:00

Nightclubs inherently are difficult. They're not for everyone. It just plain might not be your scene.

That being said, it's not impossible to get laid from nightclubs. As a fellow brother, black men are highly polarizing. Women are either 200% on our program or not. We automatically get swag points off our skin alone. Of course, we also get the rap for gangstas, drug dealers, and hypersexual athletes. We usually have to up to sophistication to counteract this. Think Tupac in a Suit.

You're expected to be poor, so you need to have your money up.

You're expected to be not be worldly, so you should be improving your knowledge base.

You're expected to be aggressive, yet subservient, so you need to be in a state of controlled assertiveness. Speak softly and carry a big stick.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-04T10:12:03+00:00

Walk in like you own the place and your shit don't stink.

09piercd · 2022-01-04T09:59:56+00:00

All about confidence bro . Pull some shapes , stop watching other dudes , the girls will come to you

L0n3W01f_ · 2022-01-04T13:58:25+00:00

What type of energy are you brining into the club?

Instead of focusing on getting attention from girls, you should just focus on having fun and let the rest flow. Good luck mate.

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-01-04T09:35:04+00:00

How'd you know you're not ugly or just averageif you don't get attention from girls ?

Your-old-shipmate · 2022-01-04T11:24:01+00:00

I find it helps to be a semi regular at least. Get to know the bouncers and the bar staff, some of the other regulars etc.

Mriconicdev · 2022-01-04T10:40:41+00:00

If you’re not in VIP or have a table or have status at the club, your chances are slim.

Title	Not getting action at Night clubs
Author	Actual_Lifeguard5497
Upvotes	3
Comments	16
Date	January 4, 2022 9:29 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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