Disclaimer: I'm pretty damn inexperienced, never really started dating around or really talking to girls in a meaningful way until about a year ago (I'm about to turn 23). Since then I've dated 3 girls briefly, and hooked up with several others while going out. Things seem to just fizzle out after about a two or three weeks with each so I think I have a problem with maintaining any significant attraction after the first few meetings.

Current situation is as follows: met a girl who I have mutual friends with out at a bar. We dance, make out, exchange numbers, then proceed to text each other pretty much every day for the next week. I should also mention that we live about an hour and a half away because I'm going to school in the town over while she's living in my hometown.

For the few weeks she seemed really into me. I came back into town the next weekend for a halloween party I was planning on going to, we met up there and kissed a few times. Went out with her to lunch the next day and had a good time. When I got back to school she would text me things like she's gonna try to visit me, etc. I came back into town that weekend again and spent the night with her (no sex though). I should mention that her roommate is a guy and is in love with her, and I recently found this all out for sure, but he would stare at me and talk shit behind my back and I got a really weird vibe from him.

So the next day we go get lunch and then I leave, thinking all is well. I texted her a few hours later saying I had a great time with her and asked how her night was going, and she didn't respond until the next day (now i tend to get paranoid when I'm texting girls like this so of course I think something is up).

So we continue texting for the next couple weeks but it seems like it's cooled off a bit, so I back off as well, thinking I don't want to annoy her and push her farther away. There's a couple more instances where she would just completely ignore a text I sent so eventually I kind of figured it was stagnating. So this past weekend (2 weeks after I last saw her, and it had been about 2 or 3 days since I last texted her) I came into town again to see a friend play a show. On saturday night I went out to get some drinks with friends so I sent her a text that said "hey I'm in town, going to bar tonight, you should come out." she replied "aww man I would but I've been out two nights in a row my liver needs a break haha." I replied with an inside joke and got a positive reaction so I asked her to lunch tomorrow and she said "hell yeah :) lets do it," so obviously I'm thinking I still have a shot.

The place we were planning on going closes at about 2 pm every sunday. So I texted her to see if she was awake at like 1215, and she replied at about 130 that she had just woken up. She asked if I wanted to come hang out and watch eastbound and down with her (and her roommates) which honestly I didn't want to do. She also kept putting it off saying she had to go put her laundry in the washer first and I could only stay until like 6 because she had plans, and I just got the impression she was giving me the runaround, especially after sleeping through lunch. So she says she's gonna let me know when I should head over and I wait until about 4:30 and I jut tell her I'm heading back to my house in the next town to which she replies ":( why," I just say I'm worn out from the night before and i wanna get back before its too late, she says" I understand well next time let me know know youre coming beforehand and I can clear my schedule and go out with you" and I just replied "alright"

So I guess what I'm wondering is does it seem like she's just stringing me along at this point? or did I just read it wrong and fuck it up. I like this girl, I admittedly don't know her too well but we have a shitload in common and i have a lot of fun when I'm with her in person. She does seem to have some baggage though (ex?-lesbian, seems to be leading her roommate on...) and I don't really know if I should be trying to be in a relationship with her. My plan is to not even bother texting her until two weeks from now when I go home for thanksgiving, and then just see if she wants to go out then...is this the right course of action?