Does anyone ever feel like a dog chasing cars? What do I do to fix my atrocious conversion rate? Numbers go nowhere, I'm getting very little ROI.
I often begin to wonder if the game is even worth it when it comes to me.
I feel like I approach so many women and it never goes anywhere. I have a ridiculously low return on investment from the women I approach.
Through daygame, mostly at college, I approach about two women a week. I don't keep track of how many women I've approached, but currently I have about 30 numbers in my phone, probably taken from about 37 approaches, the ones I didn't get a number from were girls that kept walking, had to go somewhere, etc. I actually dislike numbers now, they're completely useless.
Most of my approaches go along smoothly and very well. Out of all those girls, maybe about 6 were any serious prospects. Most of the women give their number then disappear, some don't even reply to my text(soft rejection), then there's the I have a bf(I know how to handle the shit test) I get almost no negative reactions or hard rejections. Sometimes I've even had girls who literally told me they were interested, and wanted to set something up just disappear. It is a mystery to me. I have opening, approaching, conversing, all that stuff down but it doesn't go anywhere. Women don't seem all that interested in me. Am I just ugly? I'm 6ft, I'm of average weight, and I'd give myself maybe a 7 but I sure don't feel like it. I take good care of myself
From the successful ones I've had maybe 3 girls out of all the ones I've approached in my college were interested. I have the lowest success in my college. the other ones were in other places outside. about two of my serious prospects approached ME first so I can't even say they were ones I've got from my game.
I also feel like the women that are interested in me aren't even interested all that much, I'm always putting forth more effort, even when I don't care much about the girl. I just want to figure things out.
I've tried everything. I kino very well and I take it as far as possible with kino. Girls are usually holding my hands and stroking them by the end of a 30 min convo. I have strong eye contact, I'm confident, I'm very witty. I qualify women and have a mindset of "what is she like, I'd like to find out?" I flirt well and make my intent clear. I deal with shit tests and hold my frame. I always make sure to time bridge and set up a date if it's possible yet almost none of these girls go anywhere. I've even tried polarizing different parts of my natural personality, like being more charming, or upping my naturally sexually aggressive flirtiness, or my natural self, or being super chill, etc. I even had women assume I was a man who gets many women because of how confident I seemed. A girl I recently approached said something like, "You know you're really ballsy coming up to me like that" and kept complimenting me. My friends think I get it despite telling them that I do not.
I generally enjoy approaching in and of itself, I like talking to people as I'm a social guy, but every few months I feel like it's an exercise in futility.
I constantly feel like I'm dog chasing cars or a bag caught in an updraft. Chasing something that will never lead anywhere.
Edit: I've been doing this for over a year and half, practical experience+I read material. I'm not a newb.
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