Ok so how do I do this?

5centcandy · 2016-07-10T23:35:46+00:00

Read bang. By roosh. Best thing I could tell you to do besides coaching you myself.

thrway178920 · 2016-07-10T21:01:10+00:00

something happened there that makes me post this and be so fucking passionate about changing my situation

Whatever happens, you hold on to the fire! This is a path of self-improvement. You'll fail, and you'll get hurt, but as long as you don't stop you'll keep improving.

Give me some small pointers guys. Things that help(ed) you at first. I need help.

Start small. Eye contact, posture, and smiling.

Don't be afraid to make eye contact with girls you find attractive. In fact at this point, you should be trying to maintain eye contact with everyone you can. Just to practice.

If you lock eyes with a girl, flash her a friendly smile. If she returns the gesture you can absolutely take that opportunity to approach her, but if you don't feel ready then just enjoy the moment and move on.

You should try to maintain a confident posture. Do you find yourself looking at the floor a lot? Do you tend to slouch over? When you walk do you kind of shuffle around?

Stop doing that. Keep your head up, your chest out, and walk with purpose. You want to appear confident and engaged with life.

When it comes to approaching you can start by asking people simple and innocent questions. "How's the weather outside? Do you have the time? Do you know how to get to X store?"

Compliments are also a good way to practice. "I like your hair. Nice shoes. Cool shirt."

Eventually the idea of approaching someone will seem less scary and you can use these things to transition into a conversation, and then you can use that conversation to get a date or a number.

DaygameCoach · 2016-07-11T00:44:59+00:00

Read all the sidebar help, including that on AA. There is also a beginners board, /r/askseddit/

Title	Ok so how do I do this?
Author	andrewgore96
Upvotes	5
Comments	15
Date	July 10, 2016 8:31 PM UTC (10 years ago)
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