One night stand problem

DontCallMeTopher · 2022-10-26T20:44:46+00:00

Dude you’re trying to do too much too soon after. You’re making yourself way too available and not leaving any mystery. A simple follow up text a few hours after is all you need, then you can go from there. If you keep this up she’s going to lose interest fast

Turbopre2 · 2022-10-26T23:47:55+00:00

You met women at the club and slept with them the same night. I would say you are highly successful in the current field that you are in. That’s literally what the club is for, to hook up. If you want something more than that then look outside the club.

bcool_returns · 2022-10-26T22:55:46+00:00

Believe it or not, after a great night, women are more than capable of reaching out to you and doing some of the legwork themselves.Why do guys always have to be the first one to initiate? Why do guys always have to be the last one to say something?

I'm also wondering why it was necessary to get her Snap when you already had her IG.

As for the rest, women go silent all the time, man. If I panicked and called it "ghosting" every time a woman went silent on me, I'd be missing out on a ton of dates. Leave a few days of space and hit her up again as if you have the memory of a goldfish.

And in the future, let stuff breathe a bit after you've had sex with her. Sometimes she just needs to process her feelings away from you. Sometimes it was just a one night thing and that's that. We don't know which one this is yet. You met just a few hours prior. Calm down a bit.

dick_head4life · 2022-10-26T21:44:56+00:00

That’s all it was really, a one night stand.

Neo-Rio · 2022-10-27T03:40:36+00:00

Girl used you for sex.

Yeah I know women accuse men of doing this all the time, but in actual fact they're quite capable of doing it to men as well.

If you're going to sleep around with lots of women, them's the breaks.

You didn't do anything wrong. She just saw you as a sexual opportunity to exploit. It might feel weird but in fact you should pat yourself on the back. She let you bust a nut in her and has freed you up to meet other women - to do it again to them!

Don't ruin what you had by chasing after this girl, sending creepy stalker vibes, texting her, trying to set something up again. Just don't. She'll move onto the next male target and won't want to be disturbed. Let her go and if she wants to contact you and see you again, she will. In the meantime you need to find another girl and give a repeat performance.

When you're an alpha, a guy who gets all the girls, this is just how it is. Now... if you were careless and got her pregnant, what then happens is that one month later when she's with the new guy, *that* guy suddenly becomes a daddy..........

futuremo · 2022-10-26T22:41:00+00:00

Don't even think about reaching back out for a solid week or so if she doesn't respond

incognito3107 · 2022-10-27T08:13:20+00:00

Well, like you said, it was a ONS. Girl was not necessarily connected to you enough to behave like you are in a relationship already. Give her space and time to process things and build up some comfort with you. It's normal to get hormonal storm after being so close with a girl, but acting clingy can make her uncomfortable and you less attractive. Keep it cool and laidback.

g3wb3r · 2022-10-27T01:25:14+00:00

The only thing you should be contacting her for after you have sex with her is more sex .. period. Otherwise you look like an emotional beta desperate for female attention. Don't contact her for a week and still no reply just tell her to come over and get some more dick.

Title	One night stand problem
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	10
Comments	15
Date	October 26, 2022 7:21 PM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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