Today I encountered my old habits coming back and I had quite a few different kinds of interactions. I made a calibration error today as well in which I didn't calibrate properly and made the girl uncomfortable. It was probably because I was a bit hasty. Also I am still trying to stick to the opener. Another thing I am actually thinking of doing is starting some kind of social event like a weekly sushi dinner(got this idea from RSD Luke) or something like that and inviting girls to those kind of things. I would like others opinions on that.
Interaction 1 - This was a short one at a signal. One thing about talking to a girl who is waiting at a signal is that you will lose her when signal turns green. I know that and still sometimes make the same error. I was still in my head so I said fuck it and approached her. I said excuse Me and used my artistic opener. She said she was not an artist. At that time the signal turned green and she said she has to go when I asked her what she actually does.
Interaction 2 - This was a girl rushing towards me. I stopped her and used the fashion opener because she had a great style. She said she is not into fashion and was actually into real estate. Before I could say something else, she said she has to go and left.
Interaction 3 - I was at a singalong and saw this girl with lots of rings in her hands and piercings but she was dressed like she does something corporate. I said excuse me and told her that how she has so many rings and piercings while looking like that, I am really amazed by this contrast and would like to know what she does. She said she was a lawyer and I promise I couldn't have guessed that with all those rings. I told her that she looks more like a rock concert promoter or something and she laughed and said it's her style that she likes. We talked About it a bit but then get bus was there and she had to go so she left.
Interaction 4 - This was a funny one. I went to the mall to see a friend and saw this smoking vape outside. I went up to her and said she had such a chill vibe which is different to people I see on the street. She laughed and told me she was on her break. I literally went blank after that for some reason. I mean I really didn't know what to say. But this time I didn't eject and told her that I really don't know what to say because I don't do it very often. I stood there for some seconds and then asked her why she was working there and then she told me she wanted to move to Australia because she had some family members there. We talked about it and I told her about how I would like to go to Europe. Then she says she had to go because she has to meet a friend so I asked for her number but she declined. She told me where she works so I thinking of just doing by and say hi to get sometimes when I am in the mall.
Interaction 5 - This was way after the other interactions. I saw this tall women coming towards me so I said excuse me. She looked really serious so all I could this was the generic you look really nice. She said thanks and left.
After reading all this, what should my main focus for tomorrow?
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