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Hahaha I was a newbie who is trying to learn something he wasn't good at man. Thanks for the appreciation
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:42 AM
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Once I start again, I will do that
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:41 AM
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Hahaha I was a newbie who is trying to learn something he wasn't good at man. Thanks for the appreciation.
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:41 AM
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At some level, you have to take responsibility because you can only improve if you say it was your fault. If you blame it on woman then you can't take grow because you have put everything on women's court
/r/seduction31/08/20 04:40 AM
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Ok. What would you do?
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:07 PM
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Thanks bro. What would be a good way to formulate it differently?
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:07 PM
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Ok. I am curious about how should I go about it then?
/r/seduction24/07/20 08:06 PM
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Things are as normal as they can be here in New Zealand. It's like life is back to normal so no one wears mask now
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:41 PM
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The only way I would say covid is affecting me Challenge is that there are less tourists here cuz borders are closed. Having tourists here would have definitely helped
/r/seduction23/07/20 12:35 PM
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I can't agree to it more. One thing that was really good about the date was that I was trying but I never pushed for it. I tried to go for it and she resisted so I continued joking. Like it was nothing special. I don't know but I had so much fun with her that all other things didn't matter. And I agree that it's so beautiful and you just want to enjoy it with the other person rather then being fixated on why she isn't kissing me.
/r/seduction20/07/20 09:30 PM
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/r/seduction19/07/20 11:14 AM
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I will try to move interactions to instadate now as my first priority and see how it goes.
/r/seduction17/07/20 03:19 PM
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Thanks. I will do that
/r/seduction17/07/20 03:18 PM
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28 bro
/r/seduction16/07/20 10:04 AM
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I know that most of the people here have been trying to help me and I appreciate that. This post was just to inform a bit about the other things I am doing. Also, I understand that the one-year thing is actually a lifetime journey.
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:41 AM
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Thanks man. Best of luck with your journey as well
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:38 AM
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I won't go out of my way to go to that place.
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:37 AM
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Well, they were trying to help too and using different openers were all part of the journey too I guess. I am working a lot on improving my looks now. I go out wearing a blazer normally but now I am thinking that probably I should sometimes try a different style too as it will give me a more young look. I am happy that at least this challenge made me start going to the gym because I was always so lazy about that before this. Bro, I will just send you a pic as you have been really curious about t…
/r/seduction16/07/20 07:34 AM
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I understand what you mean here bro. My normal style is actually direct but I was trying to use different styles and I didn't really enjoy that. So from now on I will be direct. As for flirting, I have to work on that and it is my goal as well.
/r/seduction15/07/20 12:44 PM
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I prefer direct. I tried indirect but mostly it wouldn't come genuine for me
/r/seduction14/07/20 09:54 PM
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I know man. It's been a lot of girls. I want to fix this for sure and am taking action as you can see. And you can say that I am desperate to get good so maybe I am trying everything I feel that can work. I am curious about what you are suggesting bro. Can tell me what you want me to exactly? I have read your comments on my posts and you talk about finding my true style. Can you elaborate it a bit more? Thanks man
/r/seduction13/07/20 06:16 AM
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Yeah it definitely helps. I have three right now
/r/seduction09/07/20 12:57 PM
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Yeah I do agree with the enjoying part. It's essential for long term progress
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:06 PM
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Yeah I am trying to get into that horizon now. Mostly girls are in rush but my focus is still getting a date soon while enjoying the whole journey
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:05 PM
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Yeah I try to do mostly
/r/seduction08/07/20 12:04 PM
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Right now it is I think coz of covid
/r/seduction07/07/20 11:43 AM
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New Zealand bro. Rains all the time here
/r/seduction06/07/20 09:40 PM
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Yeah
/r/seduction04/07/20 01:29 PM
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I don't tease get because I haven't done or before and I think that's fucking me up at times
/r/seduction01/07/20 11:55 AM
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I have been thinking about doing that too. Rather then doing 5 everyday, I should do just 1 or 2 daily to keep the habit and do like 15-20 3 times a week. That way I should be able to do much better. Is that what you advise as well?
/r/seduction01/07/20 01:34 AM
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Haha that sounds like a cool experience man.I guess what you said about putting myself in those situations more is the answer. Thanks for the helpful advice as always man
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:56 AM
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Haha those moments are definitely funny.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:44 AM
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Thanks. That Chinese one was really great tbh
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:41 AM
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I will try to use this as my last resort bro. Also thanks man
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:40 AM
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I do 5 on average a day
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:39 AM
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I liked 5 better tbh
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:39 AM
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That's part of the reason to keep going
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:38 AM
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For me nightgame is really loud and lots of completing going on. I like the laid back vibe of daygame. Still I will try nightgame sometimes too
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:38 AM
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Yeah that's the whole thing man
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:37 AM
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It definitely helps man
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:36 AM
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Can to explain our a bit bro?
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:36 AM
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I actually befriended a guy in Starbucks recently. I just looked at him and we had an eye contact and it was funny and we both started laughing. After that I introduced myself and we became friends shortly after
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:35 AM
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I am working at improving my talking for now
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:34 AM
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Ikr😂
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:33 AM
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Awesome stuff man. Really needed this big time. Thanks for sharing
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:32 AM
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Thanks man. I am slowly improving by following the structure for sure. I will use the method you mentioned next time. Thanks for the breathing technique.
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:32 AM
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Yeah that definitely happens alot
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:30 AM
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I have been getting decent results with the openers but I guess what you said here is worth a try as well. I have just found that if I pause after the compliment then alot of times they will just say thanks and leave. I think a pause in the opener is actually good. My interests are watching movies, philosophy, dancing(I have recently started that), arcades we etc. I will try to implement what you said and see how it goes. Thanks
/r/seduction29/06/20 10:29 AM
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I tried it one before starting my journey for 2 months. Not sure if I will do it again soon. I definitely agree that it's helpful
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:43 PM
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Awesome bro. It's definitely hard but worth it for sure.
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:42 PM
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Trying that bro. It's hard to sometimes remember it in set. Will try to be more present about it
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:41 PM
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I guess that will come with time bro. Thanks for the advice
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:41 PM
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That's a lot of info man. Thanks for sharing all this awesome stuff. It's so much stuff that I will try to implement it slowly
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:40 PM
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Thanks for the tips man. I will try to remember these infields next time
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:39 PM
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Didn't count
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:38 PM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:38 PM
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Thanks man. I am trying to do it step by step
/r/seduction24/06/20 01:37 PM
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I kinda understand why I got this reaction from number 2 because I was actually looking like I would as her for something lol. I actually want to improve my night time approaches because it can help my calibration so much. I haven't actually thought of concatenating openers, can you explain it a bit bro? I will try non appearance openers when I get the hand of the ones I am trying to learn now. Btw thanks for all the awesome feedback
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:57 AM
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I like how you compared it to sales. I guess some girls might just like me going up to them and starting a conversation. I will make a habit of always always closing. I was doing that in the start but I think somewhere along the road, I started focusing on other things and totally forgot this part. Thanks for reminding me about it again. Also, thanks for the helpful feedback
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:53 AM
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Thanks man. I am trying to fix my mistakes slowly
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:49 AM
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I am still fixing the errors after the opener. Mostly if I feel that interaction was little long then I go for number. Also, thanks for reminding that sometimes the girl is unavailable as well
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:49 AM
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Thanks mate. I think learning is really important to shorten my road to success
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:47 AM
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Thanks for the encouragement. I am still trying to fix my conversation habits because I have too many things at times in my head.
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:46 AM
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I try to watch videos for inner game because I understand it's crucial
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:41 AM
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I am working on my voice projection because I feel that's one of the problems. I understand what you mean by shiny object syndrome and I will try to stay away from it. I am still trying to fix one issue at a time. Thanks for the practical tips again bro and providing me with constant feedback
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:40 AM
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Means talking to a girl you don't know
/r/seduction23/06/20 06:21 AM
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I will go to mind's of always going for the close
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:51 AM
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That's one of my biggest problem that I found today. Inwas ejecting from some sets for no reason. Now that I have experienced it so I will try to minimize it as muxh as I cab
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:14 AM
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Yeah I am trying to become more aware. Thanks
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:12 AM
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Thanks for all this practical advice man. Also that Craig Furguson stuff is so awesome. It's awesome for game. I will try to remember the tease part
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:11 AM
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Thanks for the tips man. Direct is good when I am more advanced I guess. Right now I definitely want to practice conversation. I will try to build genuine curiosity because it's actually one of the most important thing for sure
/r/seduction22/06/20 10:10 AM
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I have been direct always as well but I have been getting instant blowouts and I need to practice a conversational skill so doing semi-direct rather than indirect.
/r/seduction22/06/20 08:33 AM
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Most of them did not hook so that's why I did not ask them for number. Also, the interactions are still small so asking numbers did not make sense. Yeah numbers is the point lol
/r/seduction22/06/20 08:29 AM
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I can give it a try sometimes especially if she is looking mean lol
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:41 PM
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Hahaha I think there has to be a pause here and smirk
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:40 PM
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Yeah I agree with that for sure
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:38 PM
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Hahaha I have been thinking about it as well. I will go with this advice now. Thanks
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:38 PM
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Hahaha I liked it how you started with please god. Thanks for explaining it this way. I have also been thinking about making few changes. This looks like a good way
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:36 PM
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I get what you meant here. I say it with a cheeky smile and some girls actually take that as a compliment too. Have to get more data I guess
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:31 PM
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I hope so man. It's really about the intent and body language. I am still far from perfecting it though. Still rookie bro. Just learning one day at a time with mixture of days.
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:32 PM
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Things are almost normal in New Zealand
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:31 PM
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Thanks for these tips man. I like how you mentioned about going into statements because that's the problem I am facing right now.
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:30 PM
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It's can be various reasons. I approach mostly on streets where girls are walking fast and they don't want to stop so they would say thank you and leave. Sometimes I run out of words and she would leave. Sometimes she does have a boyfriend. Mostly they have to get back to what they are doing. Also girls live in a world where a lot of men try to hit on her and want to sleep with her, so when I am uncalibrated like a lot of times because I am still a newbie, I don't come off as my best self and sh…
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:29 PM
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Thanks. Yeah I actually add a pause because the pause makes things a bit interesting. It's really essential in my experience
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:25 PM
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Telling them they are pretty is great because at times you get to see a smile in her eyes which is worth everything when you go direct
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:24 PM
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I think the part you are saying is great directly after the opener. I have tried it at times but the problem I feel with it is that it gets too friendly at times with girl not knowing what you are there for. I will still try those suggestions to see how it goes
/r/seduction20/06/20 12:23 PM
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Yeah sounds good to me bro. Let's meet sometimes.
/r/seduction20/06/20 08:30 AM
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Sounds good bro. Would definitely love to do that
/r/seduction19/06/20 02:30 PM
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I still get nervous for my first 2 interactions because I guess it just stays there. After that it gets easy and I sometimes even get attracted to talk to the girl
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:06 AM
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Thanks man. I have changed one thing that I don't ask them if I can say something, I am more grounded and just tell them I have to say something and they stop. I expect them to stop. Also definitely the pause makes the compliment much more real. I definitely agree with the social part. For me it's to convey what I have in my mind. So a lot of times getting the girl isn't a thing
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:05 AM
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It takes just an hour to do 5 approaches on a busy street cuz the interactions are always mix of short and long. One hour to handle this area of your life is manageable
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:02 AM
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Go for it bro and best of luck
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:01 AM
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Today I actually did that. The girl was like she was unsure and I told her to stop overthinking it and give me the number. We will see from there how it goes. I haven't tried the asking a girl for help but will try it sometimes
/r/seduction19/06/20 06:00 AM
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I am trying to set up some dates with the few numbers I got. The interactions are mix everyday
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:59 AM
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Thanks man. Consistency over everything
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:58 AM
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I am also thinking of doing that
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:57 AM
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Yeah you should definitely give it a try man. Best of luck
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:56 AM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction19/06/20 05:56 AM
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Thanks for the advice bro. I will try to implement the changes you mentioned here as soon as I can.
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:40 AM
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Stacking means trying to guess something about her or noticing something about her in the moment and saying it out to her
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:36 AM
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Thanks man for this practical advice. I also feel that I get too conversational at times. I will try to remember using them during my next interactions.
/r/seduction18/06/20 01:33 AM
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Yeah I guess at some level it might be true. The experience was recent so can't blame if some girls are a bit scared. Still the best we can do is to try to calibrate accordingly and move forward.
/r/seduction17/06/20 03:11 AM
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Yeah that's the plan
/r/seduction17/06/20 03:02 AM
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Yeah yesterday was a bit of like that. Have to keep it fun lol. Thanks for the reminder
/r/seduction17/06/20 03:01 AM
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Hmmm I am confused about that. I know that I should be improving over time but sometimes I guess I just want to keep it simple and do my 5 and not lose the habit. Yesterday was probably one of those days
/r/seduction17/06/20 03:00 AM
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Yeah I get that. That's why today I tried to say that with energy and also stacked immediately after that. I watched a video of Tom Torero about first 90 Sec of Daygame and tried to follow that. It was definitely better
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:54 AM
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Normally I try to dress casually and I an working on improving my style. My height is almost 181cm, I started with pompador haircut but I think I need to get it cut again and I am from Pakistan with still a bit of accent. I appreciate all the help though. Thanks
/r/seduction17/06/20 02:52 AM
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Mostly local girls are short on time because they have things going on. I will try to do that sometimes though.
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:14 AM
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I have to work on that. I have really bad one right now
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:12 AM
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I am actually the same as well. I don't even like using social media alot. Feels like waste of time for me. Also I don't want them so start interfering in my personal space just after one interaction.
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:12 AM
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I have a bad Facebook and instagram so I can't tell you much. I have only started taking the Facebook or Instagram since yesterday so I have to see how it goes
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:10 AM
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Hey bro, I guess sometimes maybe but most of the time, I am still in my head during my first 2or 3 approaches and thinking of how should I start. I will only know after a long time has passed me on my challenge
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:09 AM
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Same
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:06 AM
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Yeah I have been always trying to get myself back to this basic mindset because only then you can do this long term and not give up. Only by celebrating small wins. Thanks for reminding me again
/r/seduction16/06/20 02:06 AM
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Yery cool way of saying it bro. I will use it in my next interaction. Thanks
/r/seduction15/06/20 11:15 PM
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I am talking about guys who comment negative about cold approach bro. I am open to learning however it is. But don't comment about cold approach being creepy on a post about cold approach. That's all I want
/r/seduction15/06/20 12:07 PM
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The thing is that interaction 6 was quite fluid and flow type. It was a continuous challenge between us. One cool thing that I remember was she asked me what was I doing there and I said I was waiting for my friend and she replied with that's nice to which I said "what's nice about it" and he friend started laughing and was looking at me shocked. She wasn't expecting a challenge. Also in there was a fun I said that my therapist told me to talk to people and she said oh really and I said yeah I a…
/r/seduction15/06/20 06:32 AM
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Thanks for telling me about your Awesome journey bro. I definitely feel the stupid part at a lot of times. I guess that's part of the learning process.
/r/seduction14/06/20 11:46 AM
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I only wrote it here to make it amusing for me.
/r/seduction14/06/20 08:49 AM
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Thanks bro. My only affirmation is NO MATTER HOW LONG IT TAKES AND HOW I FEEL, I WILL CONTINUE ON MY JOURNEY AND CONTINUE TO GROW. GIVING UP IS NOT AN OPTION. Trick is to walk up to a woman and say Hi and see how it goes and be totally cool with getting harshly rejected lol
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:10 AM
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You just have to walk up to a girl and accept that she might not like you and get your ego bruised. Everyone can do it. I am as normal as everyone else man.
/r/seduction14/06/20 01:05 AM
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Just grinding bro. Going through all the rejections. Btw walking with strangers is actually easy. You just have to think it's normal. That's what I feel now
/r/seduction12/06/20 12:01 PM
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Yeah I try to become totally outcome independent from now on. My action is my only metric for success
/r/seduction12/06/20 11:59 AM
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Yeah that's what I have understood today. As long as I am taking action and improving little by little, I will become outcome independent. Btw I like that silly humor
/r/seduction12/06/20 11:58 AM
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I have watched way too many videos so it's how I think now
/r/seduction11/06/20 06:48 PM
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That feeling is so worth it bro. It's that feeling that has kept me going despite mixed results. I am also in the start of my journey so I can kinda understand what you are going through. Just keep doing it everyday man. Best of luck
/r/seduction11/06/20 03:50 AM
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Well the number I got at the start didn't seem solid and most of them didn't reply. The 18 year old girl did reply so I will see if I can get her out on a date
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:28 PM
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She was Chinese Kiwi lol.
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:27 PM
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Auckland
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:27 PM
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Yeah all in just couple of hours
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:26 PM
1

Auckland
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:26 PM
1

Yeah it was definitely so muxh fun
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:25 PM
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Even though those two interactions seem like they weren't a success but they still went really good. The first one was great because it was long and I practiced conversation and talking about myself. The second one was awesome because I went for what I want even when I wasn't my best. I didn't use my looks at that time as an excuse and things like these can really pump you up.
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:25 PM
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Hahaha thank you
/r/seduction10/06/20 07:22 PM
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Hahaha Asian Tiger Mom Pick-up version 😂
/r/seduction10/06/20 11:22 AM
1

I agree to your comment of focusing on one thing at a time. Yes 13 days in a row.
/r/seduction10/06/20 11:21 AM
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Thanks for the advice. I definitely agree that focusing on just one or two things a day can have a big improvement over time in the game. Today I just tried to speak slow and it had an awesome effect. It's been 13 days now
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:44 AM
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Thanks for an awesome breakdown and all the advice. I will probably try to go for min dates with girls if I feel they have time. And thanks for reminding me that it's ok to get rejected in the start
/r/seduction10/06/20 10:42 AM
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Yeah my question was if the results I am getting normal or not?
/r/seduction10/06/20 02:46 AM
1

I will try that. The thing is I am just a beginner and I am trying to focus on one thing at a time. That's why I forgot alot of this stuff when I am out sometimes.
/r/seduction09/06/20 09:27 PM
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Firstly, I don't see it as a rejection but a series of successes in which couldn't go any further. That's an important mindset especially for a beginner like me. I am doing something that I wasn't comfortable doing and probably not doing it the best anyway. And it's only my second week and I have started getting good at conversations already. I just understand that it's going to take time so I am ok with that and that's why those things you call rejection doesn't bother me.
/r/seduction09/06/20 09:26 PM
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I know. The thing is mostly I approach them on streets and long interactions aren't possible alot of times. That's the roadblock I am facing
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:53 PM
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I can say that the first one was serious. And last one was too short because her bus came and that might be an excuse.
/r/seduction09/06/20 08:48 PM
1

Place is normally a busy street here and time is mostly afternoon
/r/seduction09/06/20 10:33 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/seduction09/06/20 02:41 AM
3

I say Starbucks cuz it's like at the main square. More like a mean position to me
/r/seduction08/06/20 10:57 PM
2

What's vibing?
/r/seduction08/06/20 10:51 PM
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I would say it's becoming more socially calibrated for sure. And that's why you couldn say it feels a bit natural as well.
/r/seduction08/06/20 09:43 AM
6

I am from Pakistan. Came to New Zealand 2 years ago
/r/seduction08/06/20 08:30 AM
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Thanks. I also feel that starting like that puts people at ease
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:40 AM
2

I understand your point man. I am going to try different types of approaches to get this handled.
/r/seduction08/06/20 07:38 AM
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I do understand your point but I have read that as a beginner, it's good to go direct because sometimes it's hard to display intent if you go indirect and also I am still not so good with changing topics after the initial indirect opener.
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:09 AM
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I am definitely taking notes on all the advice and will save them on the phone so that I can use it when I am out. Any particular advice for talking to moms who are with their kids. Kudos to you for going on a similar journey. I do believe that once you get this part of your life handled, you can see changes in other areas of your life as well. And I agree that it's so much fun at times.
/r/seduction07/06/20 08:05 AM
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Yeah I understand it's gonna take a while. I don't really use Instagram but I will try that too I guess.
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:35 AM
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I do it actually in different places. Mostly girls on streets or parks. I plan on going for more closed locations this week.
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:33 AM
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I am 27 years old from Pakistan living in New Zealand. I currently live in Auckland.
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:31 AM
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Sweet. I will be on the more present to notice these subtle differences at times. I use the "you look pretty" at times when I have a small window and can't really think of anything else in the moment. I will try to make it more personal next time. I haven't tried talking to people in line or grocery shopping or maybe in cafe but I would definitely try it this week. I think it should be easier then talking to someone rushing to somewhere. I guess for this next week, I will work on interacting at …
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:14 AM
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Yeah I guess sometimes it's an excuse and other times they are in a relationship. A lot are just blow outs as well.
/r/seduction07/06/20 05:05 AM
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Yeah sometimes I really like pointing out these details cuz I understand that women spend alot of time on selecting those things
/r/seduction07/06/20 04:26 AM
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Yeah I am a beginner so I understand that it's going to take sometimes for me to get this fully right. I appreciate the help. Thanks
/r/seduction07/06/20 04:25 AM
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Thanks. I could definitely see it in her eyes how happy she was.
/r/seduction07/06/20 04:23 AM
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I did get numbers but I haven't got a date.... YET
/r/seduction07/06/20 04:22 AM
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Thank you. I really enjoyed that one as well.
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:22 AM
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Thanks for this great piece of advice. I haven't been paying much attention to things that you have mentioned so will try to integrate them in my conversation from now on. I will implement them in my future sessions and will let you know the result here. Also I agree too that women are way better at reading people in general compared to men.
/r/seduction07/06/20 03:22 AM
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I really want to get that part handled now. Any advice on that?
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:43 AM
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Thanks for the appreciation and strengthening my resolve. Btw I am curious about what would be good topics then?
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:42 AM
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I know that all the big gurus think it's a shit test
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:40 AM
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It's a complicated topic and sometimes I do agree that it might not be true. Still it shows that a girl isn't interested. I think it's something that's better for Intermediate guys to try
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:39 AM
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I will try to observe the situation next time and come up with these. It will take me time though so I will try to be present for now.
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:36 AM
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I think that's an awesome way of finishing the interaction. It makes you cool in the end.
/r/seduction07/06/20 12:33 AM
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Yeah I know. Even I am a bit confused on this one. Normally if a girl says she has a boyfriend then I wouldn't bother cuz it means she isn't interested. I guess I just wanted to try a bit extra for her lol.
/r/seduction06/06/20 12:28 PM
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27
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:20 PM
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New Zealand
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:20 PM
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The advice I can give you now is that the best thing to do and the most important thing to do is to start doing it and getting reference experiences. I can understand everything that you wrote because I was there as well. I tried it once and then went to Tinder but I didn't have the best pics and I am not fond of texting so that didn't go anywhere. Bro even if you are good on Tinder, Nothing and I mean nothing can improve your social skills like cold approach pick-up. You cannot imagine the bada…
/r/seduction05/06/20 09:12 PM
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She was going to write a text lol. That's what I meant there.
/r/seduction05/06/20 10:16 AM
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I always think that I should do that but I forget that a lot of times in field. I will try to do this next time lol
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:49 AM
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I am planning for a year lol. Let's see how long this goes.
/r/seduction05/06/20 06:48 AM
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I would definitely love to try that just for fun lol
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:40 AM
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It takes 1 hours max if you want to take your take. Just make a schedule and it's not that east. Everyone wastes an hour or two here and there everyday
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:39 AM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:39 AM
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Thanks man
/r/seduction05/06/20 02:38 AM
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That's great bro. I would love to hear about how you did that man? Pleasure that I could help a bro.
/r/seduction04/06/20 10:49 AM
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I live in Auckland, New Zealand bro.
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:49 AM
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Not many people are wearing mask here so it's not affecting me much. Things are getting better here so other than mass gatherings, Things are very normal here
/r/seduction04/06/20 06:11 AM
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That's uplifting in a different way lol.
/r/seduction04/06/20 01:50 AM
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I think people misjudged this line. I am quite playful when I am saying these. And I have to be a bit cocky cuz otherwise you might end up being too nice. It's always better to go a bit far and calibrate later rather then not trying at all.
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:49 PM
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Go to a park, go up to a girl who is sitting on a bench who you think is cute and say the following " Hey, I know it's random but I thought you were cute and wanted to tell you that" Eject after that. You, my friend, just did your first approach. Hope this helps
/r/seduction03/06/20 09:14 PM
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Firstly you can still approach while wearing mask and not standing too close to people. I have seen guys do that as well and girls love it if you are socially intelligent and ballsy. Secondly things are better in New Zealand now most of the things have gone back to normal.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:38 PM
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Calibrated means adjusting your approach according to the girl's reaction like my last interaction. I just wanted to do that cuz I thought it was funny. Sometimes I would just do things that I feel like doing. So what if I won't sleep with her. I enjoyed it so that's important and I am sure she hadn't heard that before😅
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:35 PM
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Mix of Londan Daygame Model and James Marshall conversation style. Mostly it's Tom Torero style so you can check his content because I find it a bit easy for beginners.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:32 PM
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So here is a thing, someone recently told me about social distancing and what she did was didn't shake my hands when I introduced myself. Otherwise she was cool and we had a good conversation. You can still talk to people if you don't stand too close to them you know.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:30 PM
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Thanks man. I am just learning it one day at a time. I can't really rely on Tinder cuz I am not the best looking dude and I have recently started hitting gym as well so I am a bit out of shape. I mean even if the interaction is short and I don't get her number, if I just pulled her put of her everyday life for a second and started something with her then that's a great experience to me. I agree that talking to girls who on walking fast especially on the streets in more difficult and a bit awkwar…
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:27 PM
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As someone who is going to turn 30 soon, I can definitely understand your point. Definitely I don't want to do this at the expense of my career. Thanks for reminding me man. Cheers
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:12 PM
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I can understand if you live in Middle East or India or Pakistan or something similar that it's not possible. I am from Pakistan and only started cold approach after coming to New Zealand. Still if you live in any Western or South American country then I would say it's possible. It's Street Hustle bro. No one accepts this. This is something that someone even in your city is doing right now. It's like Secret Society that isn't known to average people. It just exists
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:10 AM
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My pleasure man. I understand that people relate more when show them the whole picture because I am like that as well. I would definitely keep this going so that I can help even one more person start talking to girls. Go for it bro. Just start with a Hi and self eject after that if you want to. That's a success because you did something that 98% of guys would never do. I wish you best of luck
/r/seduction03/06/20 11:07 AM
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I am a beginner who is uncalibrated. There is no way to get good at this without sucking at it in the start bro. Part of all learning process.
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:33 AM
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I am really not a that great man. I have been lazy for a large part of my life. But recently I had an important mindset change and that was the following: I have wasted so much of my life and I am not even joking when I say that I have at least watched more than 300 hours of pick-up material but what have that done for me? I would say other than reminding me about how I needed to get this area of my life handled, it hasn't helped me much. Of course, if I was taking action and absorbing the mater…
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:30 AM
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I would say I am flattered lol. Still I would be happier if my journey can help someone else start as well.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:20 AM
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Stacking is making some assumption about the girl. It can be anything from what you think she does to where you think she is from.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:19 AM
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My friends here say that Australia has more volume for game. Right now I am only talking to Kiwis mostly because travel is ban. All I can say is that you have to learn with what you got bro. Considering how things are now, I can't wait for another few months until ban is lifted.
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:18 AM
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There are mores No's in game then Yes. Understand that and your journey would become easier. I don't go to Church but I will try that one. The Milf one is definitely in my listm
/r/seduction03/06/20 05:15 AM
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Nice one bro. I am on a similar journey of getting this part of my life handled for good. I am fairly new as well so I wish you best of luck. My first name is Abdul too btw so it's cool to see another Abdul on a similar journey :D.
/r/seduction02/06/20 08:15 PM
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Yeah all solo hehe. I am hopeful to find more people during my journey though
/r/seduction02/06/20 11:25 AM
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I live in New Zealand and game isn't the best here. It's kind of like Australia
/r/seduction02/06/20 06:05 AM
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I am trying to get myself familiar with it. I still get confused during phases; part of being a beginner. I would definitely like to be more free flow later on though
/r/seduction02/06/20 04:40 AM
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I will definitely not give up cuz there is not alternative
/r/seduction01/06/20 05:03 AM
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Hey bro, I have recently started approaching during Daytime after this corona situation is getting better in New Zealand. I would just advise you to start going out and talking to people. Just be socially intelligent about it and it would be great. Now is the time so go for it man.
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:36 AM
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Hell yeah bro. That's why I put it out. Let's do it 🤩
/r/seduction01/06/20 03:18 AM
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Thanks man. I am definitely going to start trying new things from next week. Like trying new venues and stuff
/r/seduction31/05/20 10:39 AM
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I will try to keep a small journal on me with just ticks to use it as a fuel for more approaches and thanks for reminding me again that cold approach is cool bro and the rewards are big.
/r/seduction31/05/20 07:42 AM
3

One of the cool thing about doing this is that once you have cool girls coming into your life through cold approach, you understand that you should improve your quality of life because you need a cool life to retain a girl that more socially connected than you. It has great effects on your life than one can possibly imagine. You pick up hobbies along the way and you create a better social circle with people who are like you. It's so much more than just going up to strangers and starting a conver…
/r/seduction31/05/20 03:00 AM
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Yeah I understand where you are coming from. I will try to implement some of this soon. Cheers
/r/seduction30/05/20 11:36 AM
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I understand that you are talking about freedom of outcome. Still if you do not have any goal of talking to tbe girl then why would you talk to her. Intent has to be there on some level. Also posting on reddit helps other guys who are reluctant to see and realize that it ok to not be good in the start. Because a lot people think that it's just them and never even start the journey
/r/seduction30/05/20 11:35 AM
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Easiest definition would be starting a conversation with a stranger (in my case a girl that I find attractive) and telling her what I like about her, getting to know her and start a story with her. It's called cold approach because you don't know the person because mostly they aren't part of your social circle.
/r/seduction30/05/20 11:29 AM
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Nicely said man. I always read these kind of comments atleast once in every post and now I just try to not even read them cuz you do not want to read any material that would inhibit your growth or lower your conviction. Still thanks for reaffirming the truth that girls do love it when guys meet them cold sober in everyday life when you are socially intelligent with it.
/r/seduction29/05/20 11:20 PM
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I live in Auckland which is big enough to learn this.
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:24 PM
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Sorry to tell you mate but at one level it is your mind saving you from embarrassing yourself and growing in the process
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:02 PM
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Sounds great bro. Let's get this area of our life handled 🙌
/r/seduction29/05/20 05:40 PM
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As it was my first day so the interactions weren't long enough for me to ask for numbers. For atleast this week, I only plan on focusing on getting the habit of starting a conversation and I will definitely go for a number if the interaction goes well even if it's just a possibility. But numbers are not the main priority for this week I would say.
/r/seduction29/05/20 05:18 PM
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I am in Auckland and the social distancing is quite relaxed now compared to before. Very few people do I think but I haven't met one yet. Only employees who work in stores ask you to keep distance in store cuz of government regulations I think
/r/seduction29/05/20 03:57 PM
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It's the same for me right now. I am following the London Daygame Model because you need structure in the start. I found that it can be good for beginners and you can always refine it later.
/r/seduction29/05/20 09:37 AM
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I am not from New Zealand as well bro. I am from Pakistan so I am brown and English isn't even my first language but that's out of my control so I can't think of it as an excuse. The group thing is difficult for me as well so that's why I am starting witha approaching solo only. It has to be a progressive journey. As for not being understandable, that thing comes with time and no matter and I repeat no matter how much you think you can learn about it from videos and reading online, the game is p…
/r/seduction29/05/20 07:08 AM
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Guys for now my main goal for this week is to stick to it and be regular about it. GET MYSELF TALK TO PEOPLE EVEN IF IT'S A SMALL INTERACTION WITH SOMEONE IN A STORE OR A STORE CLERK. FIRST WEEK IS ALL ABOUT GETTING INTO THE HABIT OF TALKING TO STRANGERS AND THINKING IT'S NORMAL. The progress will come with time 😅
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:59 AM
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Since I started today so it was a bit both but I want to start with direct in the beginning. I will follow the London Daygame Model cuz it's easier to follow as a beginner. After a month or two in, I will start trying different things. It's hard as a beginner and most of the guys don't even start. So I want to build this habit with a structure that's already present and then I can try other things once I am regular.
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:58 AM
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Enough for me to get good at this and complete my challenge
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:46 AM
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Well they say you can only play with the cards you are dealt. So for now, I will just try to make the best of what I have
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:46 AM
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I will definitely remember those words. My only reason is that I won't settle with the first one and will get enough experience that I am sure that she is definitely the one I want. If that happens then this challenge is on hold from then😁. Thanks for this advice
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:44 AM
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I actually did study openers and structure but I just forgot everything because I haven't done it for a while😅 and because I was alone as well maybe. In one week I will get this on track max bro and definitely I will remember to not exit next time on my own.
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:40 AM
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Definitely man. By posting here and getting all these thumbs-up from you guys is my other fuel when I am feeling less motivated. Let's handle this area of life for good now
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:39 AM
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Yeah let's go out and feel alive once more.
/r/seduction29/05/20 04:37 AM
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Go for it bro. We can share our progress everyday. It's about living your life more freely and becoming a better and confident version of yourself. Sex is just a byproduct and the person you become is a reward. Cold approach can make you so much better and energized. It's like the closest thing you can do to feel alive without putting yourself in actual danger.
/r/seduction29/05/20 03:18 AM
2

Thanks man. I definitely feel like after few days I would want to do it more and more.
/r/seduction29/05/20 01:34 AM
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I plan on not settling until I get this handled for now. Will see when it happens.
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:42 PM
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I will tell you at the end of my week.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:26 PM
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I actually thought of starting with one approach a day but normally your first and second approach are the ones you are most serious and stiff and the sets get better after that. So that's why I decided a number that would still give me fair chance of getting a number as well. Thanks man, I am looking forward to this journey of mine.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:18 PM
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It's there so I have to be a bit more socially intelligent
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:13 PM
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Almost lifted.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:13 PM
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Definitely mate. Posting here is a way of committing myself to it. I will post the results everyday just so I don't give up.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:12 PM
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There was a time I was like that as well. Then I realized a good question would be "would I bang her?" And if the answer is yes then will probably approach. The only way to get goof at this is by approaching alot so have to think of a way to trick your brain I guess.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:09 PM
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It's definitely better here now. Most of the things are open and only few restrictions. Also, I understand the situation so I just have to be a bit more socially intelligent. People want to go back to their normal lives and not everyone is thinking about COVID all day. If I do end up meeting someone who is concerned then I can just leave them be. Have to be patient with this.
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:05 PM
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Thanks mate. That's why I want to do it. It's not just the girls but the person you can become after constantly taking action.
/r/seduction28/05/20 09:56 PM
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Damn man that's actually pumping adrenaline into me just reading that. I mean as insane as it could be, it's so awesome to have the choice to after what you want. Thanks for the boost man
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:37 AM
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Sweet. I get your point and I will definitely do that. I will also post on Reddit as just another journal and accountability platform.
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:33 AM
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Well, the interactions don't have to be too long and I plan on doing it during my way to work, break or when I finish my work. I mean mate if I want to get good at it then there is no other way. So, I have made it a priority right now.
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:31 AM
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Learning solo daygame is a must, because when you are alone and see a girl you like, maybe in a cafe, you can't wait for your wing. You have to step in. 99% of the attractive girls you see in your life are when you are alone. I definitely agree with that. Daygame is a solo sport in the end and as you said, most of the time you would actually be alone when seeing that girl you want to approach.
/r/seduction28/05/20 11:00 AM
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That's great man. I tried doing solo daygame today and it was quite nerve-wracking for me in the start. After that, I told myself that I am not going back until I make at least one approach. Finally, I did one approach; an indirect one though and told her that she looked nice in the end. I am definitely getting over this and am going back tomorrow. I hope we can have an awesome journey ahead of us. Cheers
/r/seduction28/05/20 10:43 AM
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Banned for charging, sharing or taking requests? lol
/r/seduction15/05/20 10:17 AM
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