Before I start, I just want to say to the guys who post negative comments on my posts, don't do that. If you are approaching and are on the similar journey then you wouldn't be doing it. It's not easy you know; getting out of your house everyday as a beginner and going through all this emotional pain. So don't post negative comments because I don't even read the helpful advice because of that sometimes. Just don't read it if you don't agree or just downvote but don't post negative comments and stop other guys from taking action too. I understand it's not for everyone so ignore my posts if it doesn't allign with your beliefs.

So today was an awesome day. I first focused on handling my eye contact and had great eye contact with almost all of my sets. Secondly I started asking girls for their socail media if they say no to numbers because I figured that I was wasting lots of opportunities. That's why I got 2 Facebook and 1 instagram today. Also all interactions were fairly long

Interaction 1 - I was still in my head and saw this artistic girl. Went up to her ans stopped her with she looks artistic. She started laughing. Asked her if it was correct and she said she was a feelings doctor. I kinda understood what she meant because I had a similar experience with one kid. Talked about it and then talked about her reasons for going after it. Also told her about me. It wasn't very flirtatious so she said she has to go. Asked her for her number but she wasn't very keen and I forgot to go for social media.

Interaction 2 - A Filipino girl who was brought up in France and recently came to New Zealand. Started with how she was looking around the area and we started talking about it. Had a good eye contact with her but the conversation went a bit logical at times. She was in a hurry so took her insta instead.

Interaction 3 - Saw this beautiful girl walking towards the bus stop. Started walking with her and went direct. I went direct with more conviction so she felt good. She was coming back from gym and talked about gym and psychology with her. Her train was almost there so took her Facebook and she ran away

Interaction 4 - A very elegant and pretty Russian girl walk past me. I thought I can't let this chance pass and went next to her and told her she is very elegant. Started walking with her and stacked with where she was from. This Interaction was really flirtatious and we were flirting with each other alot. The thing with this kind of interaction is that you are so present that at times you don't even remember the details. I walked with her to the bus stop and before I could ask her for her number, she went on to the escalator and went away. I should have gone with her I now think. The interaction felt like it didn't finish so I will definitely reapproach her if I see her again.

Interaction 5 - Saw this girl eating on the street while coming back from the train station. Opened her with how she must be busy that she has to eat on the street. Started talking with her and turned out she was a lecturer. Told her I wished I had a lecturer like her. The interaction was mix of playfulness and a some logical questions. She had a boyfriend so got her to add me on Facebook. She seemed like a cool person.

Eye contact is definitely essential and I am happy that I am starting to understand flirting a bit now.