My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a day

KillYourInnerLoser · 2020-05-28T13:19:27+00:00

Good work mate - if you stick at it for a year, this will absolutely change your life.

-Andy

nthepussycats-r · 2020-05-28T15:18:14+00:00

Hahaha you sound like a psycho but I like it

SirChodicus · 2020-05-28T11:20:23+00:00

Keep a log book of all the approaches. Count your successes and move on from your failures. This book will motivate you to get out into the field.

kirininkiri · 2020-05-28T11:24:02+00:00

5 a day? mate where do you get the time

Jericcho · 2020-05-28T14:23:51+00:00

Unrelated to this (best of luck on your journey), is New Zealand fully open and back to normal now social interactions wise?

BootySlayer911 · 2020-05-28T13:50:52+00:00

I read that a reasonable close ratio (kiss close etc not necessarily sex) is about 1/3 since roughly half of all relatively cute girls will already be in some kind of relationship, not ready/too shy to give their number etc. Cold approaching means you're above about 99% other dudes who don't have the balls. I don't yet, just online for me. Good luck please report successes

decapitate_the_rich · 2020-05-28T17:02:08+00:00

Where do people go where one can find 5 appealing women in a single day, especially now-a-days? I don't know if that many women catch my eye in a year.

Full-wishbone · 2020-05-28T16:48:37+00:00

Cool idea . Very ambitious too! I’m down with you. Let’s do this together!!

PepeLePunk · 2020-05-28T18:15:27+00:00

That's great kid, write us when you've actually done something. You can't build success off what you're going to do.

Reaver_ · 2020-05-28T20:18:16+00:00

Ease yourself into this. I think starting with 5 approaches a day is a really good way to burn yourself out. I'd start with setting a minimum of one approach a day, or even one approach every week for the first month or so. You'll realize how easy it is to hit your quota which will encourage you to approach more and go above your minimum without feeling discouraged when you don't get in five approaches every day. Work up it, or find your happy medium along the way.

Best of luck, dude. This will definitely change your life. Focus on and look forward to just seeking a fun interaction with someone new, even if it doesn't go anywhere, than actually closing as you get started with this. Make this fun, don't let this turn into a daunting chore for you.

comtruise223456 · 2020-05-28T21:23:37+00:00

What about the covid outbreak? How are you dealing with this?

loveopenly · 2020-05-29T04:30:22+00:00

Fantastic commitment. I applaud it.
One thing - at 5 approaches a day, you will get a girlfriend long before you complete that year.
If you meet a woman you really like, don't give her a pass just because you made this commitment - that would be foolish. Instead knock this challenge on the head, and focus on relationship work. It's far more beneficial in the long run. You don't need to impress or prove to anyone here that you made it a whole year. It's your life. Don't forget that.

Source: Have done similar challenge myself and also am a approach and relationship coach.

pgken · 2020-05-28T14:06:43+00:00

My standards are too high to find 5 “qualified” girls a day. LOL

Done_me_dirty · 2020-05-28T13:35:37+00:00

Laying the 5 bricks

idontmeananyofthis · 2020-05-28T15:17:08+00:00

!remindme 1 month

LethalShade · 2020-05-28T19:04:03+00:00

Are the COVID restrictions lifted where you are?

FlatDistance5 · 2020-05-29T00:53:24+00:00

Good luck man. Once you get through your first and second sets. Youll feel exhilarated and want to keep going

bagofchips9999 · 2020-05-28T17:36:36+00:00

As a woman, if I found out a guy did this, I'd probably be really creeped out, especially if he posted something like this.

I would focus more on building connections than fucking someone, especially because it's normally obvious that a guy wants to have "awesome sexual experiences" with me, even from the first conversation. Women aren't stupid, and I don't think you are either. So good luck! Hopefully you find someone not weirded out by your approach.

Tanktimez · 2020-05-28T21:21:59+00:00

This is great!

chinita49 · 2020-05-28T21:50:22+00:00

😆

bdennis1991 · 2020-05-28T23:30:01+00:00

What happens when u get in a relationship? Lol

EleoraHC · 2020-05-29T00:08:44+00:00

Bro you are in auckland, thats the issue, now if u were in a bigger city then its fine. You need to join classes or activities for connections, the gym is just for self inprovement

Hanan019 · 2020-05-29T04:05:16+00:00

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kalz44 · 2020-05-28T13:02:51+00:00

I think 5 a day is a good number but seems a bit arbitrary. How many women have you approached in the 7 days?

sashsale · 2020-07-30T01:56:11+00:00

Why don't you invest some time in courses like public speaking, or acting, or dancing? Cold approach is a good way to get out of approach anxiety but it will never teach you how to build connections and get socially tuned. In a cold approach, an interaction lasts for a very very short period of time. And you keep doing the same stuff over and over again. On the other hand, if you attend those classes, mentioned above, you get to know more people and spend more time with them. As a plus, these classes are filled with a lot of women.
maybe cold approach 3 times a week and invest more time in building your real social skill?
I have seen my wings JUST cold approached for 2 years and when I ask them to attend a party with my friends I have noticed how socially awkward they are. They are really cool for a few hours and then they do not know how to carry on. They have no real friends. This is because they can just do a cold approach and the "gamey" stuff but never invested time to learn on a real deep connection. They never took the time to learn how to be a nice speaker, be funny, and express themselves.
It's your life and time and you can do whatever you like and I am sharing the experiences and observation from my experience.

ILovemigos1234 · 2020-05-28T13:15:34+00:00

!remindme 1 month

keralaindia · 2020-05-29T00:02:50+00:00

This is retarded lol. Go do something useful. You can cold approach anyone, anytime. Do you people really find it that hard?

mr_Tobbor · 2020-05-28T11:34:27+00:00

I bet you 'll not make an approach dude. I am not mean, I just speak the ugly truth. Cold approaching is insane. A few guys can do it. Most don't. No, we are not inpotent. They are damaged, the men who deviced the "apporaching method".

Title	My first approach and Starting One Year Long Cold Approach Challenge with at least 5 approaches a day
Author	Hanan019
Upvotes	235
Comments	97
Date	May 28, 2020 10:39 AM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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