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One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 50 Progress Report

Hanan019

July 17, 2020

6 upvotes

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Had mixed interactions today. Also I am watching comedy now to learn humor and sarcasm.

Interaction 1 - Met this cute looking girl and started talking to her by saying that she looked kind of cute. I started talking to her about what she does and we had a bit of a chat. Took her number in the end by asking her for a coffee

Interaction 2 - Met this girl with beautiful eyes. Talked to her a bit and her friend was there so I left

Interaction 3 - Met this funky girl on a bike at a signal. Started talking to her and found out a bit about her. Unfortunately she left when the signal turned red

Interaction 4 - Met this cute girl in Traditional Chinese clothing. She was a psychology student and I talked to her for a bit. I wasn't at by best in the interaction my number close was very weak and she said no.

Interaction 5 - Met this cute girl who was holding a big box. She sounded really tired and said she had a long day at work so she left shortly after.

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Title	One Year Cold Approach Challenge - Day 50 Progress Report
Author	Hanan019
Upvotes	6
Comments	4
Date	July 17, 2020 3:13 PM UTC (6 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/hsxexa/one_year_cold_approach_challenge_day_50_progress/
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[–]JW_2 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

[–]PontusOfMars 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This. Idle chatter leads nowhere. How is a girl supposed to become invested in you if you talk about mundane things like the weather.

What's the content of the interaction? You say to talked for a bit, but about what? This is why I say having an audio recording is essential. At the least, it will provide you with the means to review the interaction if you aren't willing to write out a descriptive field report.

Interaction one could have been instadated. Getting a number to plan a date instead of just doing the date then and there is taking a step backwards. Instead of letting the interaction cement itself further in her memory, you are now just some random number in her phone. Strike while the iron is hot.

Same with interaction four. You're not giving these girls enough time to get a proper feel for if they want to invest in you. A quick chat and drive by number close is not the way to go.

When you've got a girl chatting you up, understand that it is audition time. That's your time to wow her, when you are front and center. Once that time passes, you no longer exist in her mind, unless you make a great impression.

No one else matters at that point. Not the guys on Tinder, not the guys in her address book, not even the guy she'll meet for drinks later that night, just you. You've essentially skipped the line in front of all those other guys. You are the realest, most concrete option at that time.

I don't know if you saw my comment from yesterday before going out, but you've got come back with either an audio recording or a much more detailed field report. What you're wearing, what your mental state is like, what the weather is like, did you shower and brush your teeth, how much sleep you got,etc. As weird as that sounds, any of these could be a reason why you're not getting anywhere.

You said you're in New Zealand? It's winter in the Southern Hemisphere. I can't imagine being happy being approached by someone, when I'm trying to get to the next location so I don't freeze my ass off.

So your homework

-Field Reports need to have for descriptive details. Locations, time of day, approach method (e.g., coming from front or behind) etc. Audio helps very much, every phone nowadays has recording functionality, use it. Give us more context.

-Instadates are your only goal. No number/Insta/Snap-closes unless you have a solid instadate where she becomes invested in you.

-You still haven't given us an idea of your outer game/SMV. If you're dressing like a bum and smell like one, you're shooting yourself in the foot. Get someone on r/AmISexy or r/AmIUgly to rate you. r/malefashionadvice has good guides of you need clothing suggestions.

[–]JW_2 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

[–]FlatDistance5 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link