Today was another awesome day. I finally realized today that as long as I am taking action and Improving one thing at a time I am getting successful. I felt that due to my past few successes, I forgot my initial attitude of accepting it as a process which will take me time to learn. I was holding myself to a standard that was not helpful at this phase of my journey. I have accepted that as long as I take action and try to improve on atleast one new thing a day, I won't be hard on myself.
Interaction 1 - I was at the square with my friend and we were talking about different stuff. Then I saw this Japanese girl walking by. I went up to her and said excuse me. She got confused because she couldn't speak much English. So I tried to tell her slowly and she understood what I was saying. She said she had to go and I told her in the little Japanese I knew about what I wanted. She still said she has to go and left.
Interaction 2 - I saw this girl walking away from me and she seemed interesting. I first thought of not doing it but then I decided that I should go for it. The only thing was that she had gone quite far by then. So I had to run so that I could catch up to her. I ran and had to run quite a distance and reached next to her panting. The good about this is that action creates momentum so it took me out of my head. I said excuse me and told her that I had to run a long way to meet her and let me catch my breath. She was quite amazed that I did that and asked me why did I do that. I told her that I had seen her and she looked interesting to me. She started laughing and I started walking with her. I asked her what she was doing and she told me she was going back to work. I understood I didn't had much time so I asked her briefly about herself and told her about myself. Then we reached her work and she was about to leave but I said that I would love to take her out for coffee. She said she has a boyfriend. I asked if he treats her well cuz you know I actually ran quite a distance for you. She said he is good to her and I said ok have a nice day
Interaction 3 - I was on my way back and I saw this girl walking on the other side of the road. I waved her to stop but she thought I wasn't looking at her and carried on. So I looked on both sides and crossed the street and said excuse me to get her attention. I told her that I was waving at her and I had to cross the street on red so that I don't lose her. She started laughing and asked why and I said because she looked nice to me. She laughed and said sorry but I have a boyfriend. Still was fun
Interaction 4 - So as the last girl left, I saw this girl coming from the say way as the last girl and she was wearing this weird combination of clothes with beanie. I stopped her and told her that her clothing is very unique and she started laughing. I asked her what she was doing and she told me she was going to university. I stacked with what I thought she studied and we talked about it for sometimes. Then I told her about myself but she didn't seem very interested. Then she said she has to go so I went for the close and told her that I would love to meet her. She said thanks but she is busy with studies and don't have much time. I said maybe sometimes after the study but she said no so I came back.
Interaction 5 - I went back to my friend who was also talking to a girl so I checked around and there was this women who was smoking cigarette and was so chill. I went up to her and told her that she had such a chill and carefree vibe about her which wasn't normal. She started laughing and said yeah people are more in rush. I asked her what she was doing and she said she was on her break. She told me she was from Tahiti and we talked about it and I told her about where I was from and how was it different from Auckland. During the interaction I noticed a ring on her ring finger and I went for a close of wanting to meet her some other time. She said she isn't sure and went away.
I took action so it was a great day.
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