Online VS Irl

axe122 · 2019-12-26T14:20:09+00:00

Use both to build your skill, don’t bank on online dating but text the same way you would approach a girl. Just jump right into playful conversation and don’t worry about getting to know her as if you sleep with her and date her you’ll get to know her gradually. I don’t have a clue about my dates brothers and sisters and shit like that until the 3rd or 4th date and I slept with her on the first. Getting to know them is huge mistake I think a lot of guys make on a date and it’s why they go out and the girl never feels a connection. Just go out have fun and make a move on her ASAP, worry about learning stuff about her over time. Online dating is a little tougher cuz you gotta get her comfortable enough to meet a stranger off the internet. You’ll have to ask some questions but really you wanna just act like you’ve known her already and flirt and tease her a lot. Work on day game irl and just use online dating as a tool to practice text game and you may even get some girls on there but don’t make it your focus.

le_GoogleFit · 2019-12-26T15:51:33+00:00

I'm pretty sure 99% of guys are most successful IRL than online.

Even for the top % men who have massive success online, there's no reason to assume they'd struggle IRL.

So I will correct myself: pretty sure 100% of guys are most successful IRL than online.

taratitatina · 2019-12-26T12:33:44+00:00

You mean like flirting? I personally think I’m way better ‘flirting’ online than irl because I get extremely shy easily when I’m face to face with that person.

ChelseaDagger14 · 2019-12-26T12:39:05+00:00

Women are far pickier online but it’s more convenient for irl. Advantages and disadvantages to both

volcanolairbadguy · 2019-12-26T17:19:15+00:00

Actually approaching in the girl power, female entitlement era is better over cuck apps.

KayArts · 2019-12-26T13:49:28+00:00

Depends on whether you are shy or confident. If you are confident and have generally sympathetic appearance, like a nice smile, go for irl. If not, practise online. Girls will be less likely to respond positively (or at all), but there's a chance. If it doesn't work, you can still practice your approaches etc. until you are confident enough to try it irl.

Ice666White · 2019-12-26T23:56:58+00:00

I, too, have a big nose.

This doesn't matter really. Just improve photos of yourself over time. Learn photography. There's also a Message Game group that roasts and review profiles.

Title	Online VS Irl
Author	mihawkd7
Upvotes	1
Comments	28
Date	December 26, 2019 12:29 PM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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