Overcoming the friend zone

LesbianPUA · 2010-12-08T13:13:48+00:00

Study PUA materials, see "new to this subreddit" in the sidebar. Then practice some of what you learn, come back and tell us your experiences, then you will receive some good input. This place is about studying and practicing. It's not AskReddit for girl troubles.

ThrowawayPUA · 2010-12-08T13:25:09+00:00

You avoid the friend zone by not putting yourself there. Men put themselves in the friend zone, the woman merely explained where you went. Study some basic pickup materials, I suggest the Mystery Method M3 model, which will explain the problem: if you make the girl comfortable with you before she is attracted to you, you get LJBF.

philosarapter · 2010-12-08T15:46:21+00:00

You get over it and you find 10 women for every 1 that puts you in the friendzone.

Zen Master Philosarapter says, stop seeking after that which you cannot have. Start being that which others cannot have, so that they seek after you.

frogma · 2010-12-08T16:01:21+00:00

If she really does like you but doesn't "want anything," keep running game. Girls like that aren't too hard to turn around. Now, if she doesn't want anything with YOU, let it be, and find other girls. However, if you guys have already fucked, it might help if you're more intimate (kino) with her in day-to-day situations. Become the guy she SHOULD want.

sethc · 2010-12-08T15:33:51+00:00

No disrespect to any of the other guys commenting, but yeahhhh(Lumberg voice) I'm gonna go ahead and NOT recommend you read anything,k?

But seriously, the friend-zone is a bitch. It's really tough to get out of once you're in.. but when you said you've "already closed" I'm guessing you've already hit it? If so, then there's automatically an in-road for you.. your best bet is just go to out with her/friends and both of you get wasted. That's almost sure-fire for ANY girl that you've already conquered.

Don't try to woo her.. that shit never works no matter if you like her or or if you want to just fuck. It'll just frustrate you. If you're wanting to date her but you've already hit it and found your way into the friend zone, I think your chances of success suck. She trusts you and (most likely) knows she can depend on you.. and if we were in a world where women had 1 normal fucking train of thought, this would be great. You'd think those are 2 qualities that women would actively seek out for a romantic interest.. but the fucked up thing is - they don't.

It's like "Yeah, he has 2 qualities that would be excellent for a potential boyfriend to have but.. fuck-that-shit face.

Hope this helts, brosef. Rock on.

Title	Overcoming the friend zone
Author	hellyesmuucka
Upvotes	0
Comments	14
Date	December 8, 2010 9:40 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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