Patience is wearing thin!!

brcb2009 · 2011-03-24T05:38:05+00:00

Dude, you need to chill. Improving your game is not all about sex. It is about becoming a better person. From what you stated, it seems as if you are losing the enjoyment of life. I know the feeling when you get too busy. Take time to relax. It is tough in the beginning to work on your game but this rejection is good for you. Learn from it.

Women see that "I need to get laid attitude" and automatically put up their defenses. Take a step back, reevaluate your attitude first. Be happy and confident in what you do and who you are. Your approach can then be sincere or even structured to take down a woman's guard.

You need to seize every opportunity you have. If you feel like you need more opportunities, then do something about it. Because you are having approach anxiety with HBs, you should probably approach any stranger and female that you come across. This will improve your game and contact list. You never know when you meet an old granny with a smokin' hot granddaughter your age.

My advice is learn to love life again, continue self improvement, and open any person you come across during your day (pay attention to body language). Read r/seduction every day.

RedErin · 2011-03-24T15:05:33+00:00

Practice on NSHBs.

on_the_dl · 2011-03-24T11:59:39+00:00

No time to go out plus no confidence to approach means that you're not getting opportunities and the ones that you get, you're missing.

I think that instead of trying to cope with those, you should try to solve those. Figure out why you don't have enough time to go out. Figure out why you're afraid to approach. Don't learn to cope, rather fix the problems.

ta8989 · 2011-03-24T10:30:44+00:00

Give day game a shot, it's important in my opinion to be able to operate in both environments. Start off with indirect approaches (functional and opinion). Looking back a few years I did some retarded shit (like asking an opinion on cologne on the street) which never should have worked but it did. It really can be that easy. Get outside your comfort zone a couple of times a day and approach a girl. It get easy really fast.

As for sexual tension, I've tried various tests to find how to deal with things. If you're having trouble concentrating on stuff it's because your body is telling you to get some girls but your mind needs to work. You can either jerk off or go get some numbers. It makes a huge difference in terms of concentration knowing you have several dates lined up later in the week.

philosarapter · 2011-03-24T18:53:25+00:00

My patience is wearing really thin. I don't want to come off as desperate but the fact is I'm really desperate. I don't have the super confidence it takes to approach every hot girl I see, and my good spots seem to be few and far between (or I miss them and don't realize until afterwards)

I want you to consider what you just wrote here for a minute. You are complaining in one sentence about how you are desperate and really need to meet women, then in the very next breath you say you don't approach every hot girl you see. Do you see the problem here?

Title	Patience is wearing thin!!
Author	TheSympathizer
Upvotes	9
Comments	6
Date	March 24, 2011 3:13 AM UTC (15 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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