I dunno if anyone here is into comedy, but Patrice O'Neal was way ahead of the game as far as seduction and psychology goes. If you guys are interested YouTube "The Black Phillip Show". It was a spin off of Opie and Anthony radio after Patrice gave years of advice on how to deal with women.

Even with the stupid hyped up virus I've been implementing some of his ideas and I've struck gold recently. Some bullet points that have helped me are:

  1. Men think of women as possessions. Stop that shit. I know it's hard cause we've been brain fed through Disney, shivalry and super Mario to fight for our princess. Yes show you're interested in the girl, but save the lovey dovey shit for when you're actually in the relationship. If she wants to fuck some other guy then so be it. Keep meeting chicks online and in the field. When you are spending time with her, keep it light and know you want her and when you do, fuck her like a madman and use lots of foreplay because most guy's don't at all. Her being comfy with you and feeling wanted will seperate you from the normies.

  2. Make her 5th most important. Family, friends, pets, you and then her. I know it's hard because it's exciting and let's face it we're all on here cause we struggle. But just be honest and tell them you're busy with your own shit and you'll get back to them when you have time. I've been ghosted by lots of women because I didn't respond in 10 mins when in reality I put a podcast on and walked the dog for an hr without rushing to my phone. If they're that insecure then that's their problem and they'll end up with some poor bastard that they'll ultimately look down on for giving them all that time.

  3. They're wrong. Remember guys we live in a world where they're being pumped up with feminism and equality yet we're the one's installing water mains and restoring power lines after a wind storm in terrible working conditions. Let them have their girl time and spread their goody ideologies, but at the end of the day don't ever let them lessen the fact that most of us actually physically get shit done. I've worked on some of the biggest high rises doing form work here in Western Canada. We literally have programs to get women into construction but the truth is women have always been allowed into construction but so few actually want to work in such harsh conditions. Some of the coolest chicks I know are rebar installers, labourers, pipe fitters and electricians. They're few and far between, yet they don't point the finger at the patriarch, they literally just showed up and started working. No one told them they couldn't.

  4. You have to introduce them. Again they live in a different world than we do. And part of that world is "I can't or we shouldn't". Is she offended by certain words? Ask her why she's laughing at those words in the first place even tho she "shouldn't be". Guys don't tend to get offended and once they get to know you they'll realize it's just part of the laugh. I have a friend who's Jewish and we call him "the Jew". This guy literally doesn't give a fuck and calls us fags and guess what? We couldn't care less. One girl I dated was super offended cause "what if someone get's triggered by the word Jew"? Well that's their problem. Give it 3 seconds and ask them why if it's so offensive then why are they giggling about the word "Jew"? BECAUSE IT'S NOT MALICIOUS. It's just words. Matt Stone and Trey Parker believe it's either all or nothing regarding censorship, and they're right. If they're is no hate or vitriol behind it and she knows you're just joking then it's all good. She'll probably end up loosening up and getting along with your friends once she realizes they're is no hate behind it. And if she is offended then you probably don't wanna hang with her anyway.

This also goes for sex. If you want to introduce anal don't ask her, tease her. Whether it's days, weeks or months, introduce foreplay in that area and before you know it her attitude of "eww anal is gross" will 180 because you eased her into the idea that it's just the human body and it's actually a very pleasurable/sensitive area for women, they just had no idea because most their male partners probably had the same square ideas about anal as they did.

Take her by the hand and go into the world. Obviously you have to match her energy, but long gone are the #metoo days where I asked for sex or felt afraid to make a move. I can remember being in my mid and late 20's and having women in my bed, yet I was such a pussy about getting permission or green lights. The light can't get any greener than having her in your bed, just make your move already.

Patrice wasn't perfect, but he was a one of a kind honest comedian that knew a lot about what being a man was about. Something I wished I had the slightest clue about years ago. Now 32 years old I've hit my stride. Better late than never.

Also don't use covid as an excuse. We've been told to sit at home and avoid contact for the last fuckin year. They're just as horny as we are and they hate the fact they've been told "no" for the last 365 days. Come onto them fast and let them no "yes" because they're dying for attention and stimulation.

Let me know what you guys think. Cheers from Vancouver (the hardest city in the world to date)