Per request, here is a piece on identifying which girls are DTF. This ended up being way longer than I expected and not much way to shorten it but hopefully you guys find it useful.

In general, most women are DTF at some point, and many if not most women have had or will have one night stands in their lives. Unfortunately, identifying who they are is difficult, and even if we could identify them, we still need to convince them to want to be DTF US. This post won't help you with the latter, but here are some tips to help you identify who is most likely to be DTF. I want to emphasize most likely.

This is far from exact science, and to put these tips in perspective, I would probably estimate that the difference in "DTF probability" for women who exhibit some of the behavior I describe below might only be 10-15% higher than your average girl, BEFORE any discounting by the probability she will sleep with YOU. Such is the nature of "DTFness".

First, let's get the most obvious sign out of the way: She touches your crotch area. Whether you are at a bar, at a club, out to dinner, at a coffee shop. This is a universal signal for "let's get out of here and go somewhere where we can have sex (or at least fool around)"

Now for some DTF Targets:

If you have strong game and there is a ton of chemistry, many girls will become DTF. WIth that said, here are targets I have found are more likely than others to be DTF:

The Quiet Girl -- A common mistake men make is going after the "wild" "sluttily dressed" woman. I have found the quiet girl, who almost looks bored, is usually more likely to be DTF. There's a chance she is just bored and/or Sheannoyed, but often times, she is simply not interested in dancing around like an idiot but is waiting for a man to offer her more.

The overdressed girl at the dive bar -- I have generally found how women dress, short of wearing a nuns outfit doesn't have enough correlation to DTFness to be practically useful information. However, one area where this isn't true is at a dive or similar type place. Overdressed women at these locations, if they aren't just coming straight from work for happy hour are generally more likely to be DTF. Note overdressed does not mean dressed slutty. Think dress instead of jeans and a t-shirt.

The Ugly Girl in the Group -- sometimes the ugliest girl in the group isn't actually ugly. What they are is usually the most DTF.

Older women -- They are usually more DTF than random 19 year olds

There are many other types of girls that are more likely DTF, but perhaps what is more important are some signs the particular girl you are engaging is DTF. Other than general IOIs and the obvious crotch grab/touch move, here are a few signs she could be DTF.

(1) She asks what your plans are later that night -- this is a pretty solid one. You can also ask her and if she has no plans and doesn't say sleep, provided you are getting other IOIs, that is a good sign.

(2) Playing on #2, if she suggests any activity that involves leaving the current location, for example, she is hungry, that's a good sign.

(3) Her friends come up to her while you are hanging out with her and she doesn't go with them/tells them she is fine/etc. This is a general IOI, but it plays an important role in DTFness as her friends are less likely to continue to interfere.

(4) She agrees to bounce around the venue with you -- this is similar to #3 in the sense that she is comfortable hanging out with just you and have you leading her around and away from her friends / without her friends

(5) She allows you to touch close to her vagina/touch her there -- a pretty obvious sign. Breasts have a similar effect, but not as strong.

There are many more similar signs to #5 (allowing varying degrees of intimacy), but note, making out is NOT generally one of them. It is a good sign, but I have found that there are tons of makeout whores out there who really lower the overall significant and importance of the k-close. I prefer isolation and more sexual touching (her leg, thigh, etc.) as a stronger indicator than k-close.

Online DTF reading:

To be honest, most girls online in my experience are DTF, even the ones that say "I am not looking for a random hook up etc". With that said, here are some good signs:

(1) She agrees to come to your place on a date (yes, first dates at your place are possible, I've had many)

(2) She is willing to meet up at a very late hour (after 10pm). This doesn't often come into play as I don't recommend proposing a date at this hour, but if it does somehow get proposed and she agrees, it's a good sign.

(3) She mentions your physical appearance in her e-mail to you. Not fool proof, but girls who mention looks as a reason for contacting you or responding to you are generally more DTF in my experience

(4) She is older -- the older she is than you, the more likely she is DTF.

(5) She has done online dating for a while -- this one is mixed but generally, if you play your cards right (and know that you are going to exceed expectations from your profile, not fall flat on your face), your DTF odds go way up.

There's a lot more to identifying girls who are DTF, and the best way is really by going out a lot and subconsciously learning the subtle signs from experience. With that said, all the signs in the world are useless if you do not have your logistics in order, so remember, before you go out on the prowl for DTF women, make sure the logistics will allow it to happen in the first place!

Any more requests, easiest to e-mail me: josh@ joshsway.com